IRL I'm kind of cold/ non-talkative to people I don't know very well, so people probably think I'm a snob. On the other hand, people I'm sort of friends with probably think I'm super obnoxious because I tend to talk a lot around them; it may be to get them to like me, idk. I'm still trying to find a balance between my loud and quiet without feeling like I'm being ignored or too overbearing.
I also act a lot tougher than I actually am because a lot of the people I'm around can be really mean to their friends, and it's kind of a follow or die thing. Hopefully that'll change once I'm not around them so much.