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@Neb Have you tried asking them if you did something wrong? Sorry, I'm terrible at relationships, I'm asexual.
I'm not in a relationship with them (I don't think so at least), but I asked about it and haven’t heard anything back.
 
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I told someone about my sexuality and they aren't talking to me anymore. What do I do?!?!
Did they simply stop responding?

If it is someone who meets the criteria for you to develop attraction to (e.g. if you are male, they are male, and you come out as MLM) sometimes people misinterpret you choosing to come out to them as you implying you are specifically attracted to them. To apply it to a heteronormative situation: it is similar to how a girl might distance herself from a boy after he mentions that he has a crush on someone because she assumes it is her and does not reciprocate.

I hope for the sake of your friendship that their behaviour is the result of a misunderstanding like this rather than them specifically taking issue with your sexuality.
 
Hey @Neb hope you're doing okay ;w; weird/cold responses are never fun to coming out, please feel free to PM me if you need to talk ;w;
 
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I did some free art for a book for "exposure" which like, red flag, i know
They wrote my insta down wrong.
I'mah cry.
At least you're willing to do art for exposure I'm too scared.
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Oh and Also I wrote two letters for prompt two which is better
Hello Jingle or whatever,

Can you please tell everyone you're real already ? I keep getting stupid question about whether you're real not and have to sort through a bunch of stupid letters for you and it's really a pain the butt feathers. What's even the big deal about you ? You're just a dumb dear who gives presents. Which honestly can't be true consider I have yet to get one. I find that rather strange and unamusing. I work all year and I get not a single thing !? To heck with that ! Just show your self already so these pesky children will finally shut up for once. I also appreciate it if you told them to stop being a "grouch who stole Toy Day Joy" I seriously have no idea what that means.

-Yours Truly or whatever Phyllis
Or
Jingle Jingle,

Hii ! I'm Filbert ! Though you already know that since Santa knows everyone ! I'm so excited to see you again this year. I keep trying to convince Diana you're real but all she ever does is roll her eyes and tell me I'm being a kid ! I know you're real because who else ate my cookies last year that left out the night before ? Maybe it was me. I do sleep eat. But it couldn't have been me ! I would have crumbs all over me ! I just hope you can bring a color pencil tree. I know color pencils come from tree but when I plant one it never seems to grow. I think I just need Santa's Magic to do the trick. I'm hungry can you bring cookies too ?
 
At least you're willing to do art for exposure I'm too scared.
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Oh and Also I wrote two letters for prompt two which is better
Hello Jingle or whatever,

Can you please tell everyone you're real already ? I keep getting stupid question about whether you're real not and have to sort through a bunch of stupid letters for you and it's really a pain the butt feathers. What's even the big deal about you ? You're just a dumb dear who gives presents. Which honestly can't be true consider I have yet to get one. I find that rather strange and unamusing. I work all year and I get not a single thing !? To heck with that ! Just show your self already so these pesky children will finally shut up for once. I also appreciate it if you told them to stop being a "grouch who stole Toy Day Joy" I seriously have no idea what that means.

-Yours Truly or whatever Phyllis
Or
Jingle Jingle,

Hii ! I'm Filbert ! Though you already know that since Santa knows everyone ! I'm so excited to see you again this year. I keep trying to convince Diana you're real but all she ever does is roll her eyes and tell me I'm being a kid ! I know you're real because who else ate my cookies last year that left out the night before ? Maybe it was me. I do sleep eat. But it couldn't have been me ! I would have crumbs all over me ! I just hope you can bring a color pencil tree. I know color pencils come from tree but when I plant one it never seems to grow. I think I just need Santa's Magic to do the trick. I'm hungry can you bring cookies too ?
The Filbert one cracks me up especially, sweet bab ;w;
 
Did they simply stop responding?

If it is someone who meets the criteria for you to develop attraction to (e.g. if you are male, they are male, and you come out as MLM) sometimes people misinterpret you choosing to come out to them as you implying you are specifically attracted to them. To apply it to a heteronormative situation: it is similar to how a girl might distance herself from a boy after he mentions that he has a crush on someone because she assumes it is her and does not reciprocate.

I hope for the sake of your friendship that their behaviour is the result of a misunderstanding like this rather than them specifically taking issue with your sexuality.
Yeah, I just asked about what they thought of the LGBTQIA+ community since I thought it would be a good conversation starter. I only mentioned being pansexual to give them context.

It’s possible they might have taken it as a hint. Usually I’m direct when confessing to someone, but they wouldn’t had known that.
 
Yeah, I just asked about what they thought of the LGBTQIA+ community since I thought it would be a good conversation starter. I only mentioned being pansexual to give them context.

It’s possible they might have taken it as a hint. Usually I’m direct when confessing to someone, but they wouldn’t had known that.
Mrh ;-; still no response from them?
Hope you‘re doing okay ~
 
I told someone about my sexuality and they aren't talking to me anymore. What do I do?!?!
if they cant handle your fabulous self then they dont deserve to be your friend.
this happened to my best friend. when she came out as lesbian to one of her closest friends the girl started like hating on her and me and my friend were just like, well lol bye so just know that if they aren't accepting you i will c:
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sorry i only just realized that this may have been a little harsh to the person who is ignoring you because i dont know the situation so my apologies if i offended you 😅
 
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if they cant handle your fabulous self then they dont deserve to be your friend.
this happened to my best friend. when she came out as lesbian to one of her closest friends the girl started like hating on her and me and my friend were just like, well lol bye so just know that if they aren't accepting you i will c:
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sorry i only just realized that this may have been a little harsh to the person who is ignoring you because i dont know the situation so my apologies if i offended you 😅
It’s okay. I'm not mad at them, but it does make me sad that they suddenly cut contact.

If it was out of homophobia (which I’m starting to doubt), it’s certainly milder than past experiences. Kids laughed at me sometimes for having two moms and I got a ton of nasty comments for wearing dresses during pride.
 
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Time to use up the last of my pre Christmas energy to make some sweet treats and then I'm napping uwu
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How is everyone today?
 
Hiii ! Christmas is in two days and even though I don't celebrate my family is still getting me gifts now I just need to order this damn switch already. Wanted to get the new xbox but dad said not to buy it. That's sus. He never tells me no on what I want to buy. Maybe he already got it?
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All I'm saying is if I don't see an xbox soon I'mma buy it and it'll go in my room 😤
 
Argh, the one day I miss the TBT advent is when there was a collectible, lol.

Well at least I have enough snowflakes for something.
 
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