Do you love your family?
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she knew you loved her.
I only got to meet and know one of my four grandparents, who has since passed away. I make sure to tell my family I love them all the time. Like LadyDestani said, I’m sure she knew.
xSuperMario64x
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My grandpa (my mom's dad) has been having a lot of health issues, and I really want to go visit him but my immediate family has been suffering with health and financial issues so much, that it's almost impossible to really travel anywhere. I don't want to wait until the day when I hear that I'll never get to see him again...
I can't imagine how you must feel. It was devastating for me to lose my cat (my best friend) back in October, so it must be hard for you. Prayers♡
I can't imagine how you must feel. It was devastating for me to lose my cat (my best friend) back in October, so it must be hard for you. Prayers♡
Shellzilla_515
F1 fan who loves onions
Yes, I do. Also, sorry for the loss. You never know when people are going to leave this world so it's best to make the most out of your family. My grandparents are still living fortunately, alive and well.
If I was asked this last year, or the year before, I would've said no. I was a child and I didn't agree with a lot of the things my parents said and did. I've had a rocky relationship with my mother especially. From the beginning of 2016 to the end of 2018, I refused to tell her "I love you." I was hurt by her, and I acted extremely petty because of it. Only recently have we been able to have a calm, normal conversation.
I now realize life is too short to be petty. Family isn't always easy to get along with, but I do love them!
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. I hope she may rest peacefully. <3
I now realize life is too short to be petty. Family isn't always easy to get along with, but I do love them!
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. I hope she may rest peacefully. <3
RedTropicalPeachyFish
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My father passed away 2 years ago.
He was in coma when I arrived.
My family had an issue and I hadn't seen him since I ran away from them when I was 15.
I hated him, and loved him, deeply.
I said see you again dad, and left there. I don't know if he heard me in the sleep.
After years, I still can't visit his grave, too scared and hurt, to face, that he's no longer anywhere.
I am so sorry for your loss. My pray for tonight is for your grandmother, and for you.
He was in coma when I arrived.
My family had an issue and I hadn't seen him since I ran away from them when I was 15.
I hated him, and loved him, deeply.
I said see you again dad, and left there. I don't know if he heard me in the sleep.
After years, I still can't visit his grave, too scared and hurt, to face, that he's no longer anywhere.
I am so sorry for your loss. My pray for tonight is for your grandmother, and for you.
i'm so sorry... i hope you have a good recovery, i know things like this hurt a lot...
i guess i love mine but it's super hard for me to love my dad because he treats all of us like we're stupid or something about his addictions and never talks...
i guess i love mine but it's super hard for me to love my dad because he treats all of us like we're stupid or something about his addictions and never talks...
Very sorry for your lost. Hope you are ok and wish you all the best.
I was never able to met my grandma (mother from my dad), I only know that she was
a very nice person and would love me if she would ever met me. Unfortunately, she died
from her illness she had before I was born.
I do like my family, but only my dad and his family. My mother and her family can leave me
alone, will never forgive them for the bs they did in the past. Full of liars and smart aleck...
I was never able to met my grandma (mother from my dad), I only know that she was
a very nice person and would love me if she would ever met me. Unfortunately, she died
from her illness she had before I was born.
I do like my family, but only my dad and his family. My mother and her family can leave me
alone, will never forgive them for the bs they did in the past. Full of liars and smart aleck...
carackobama
Celeste stan account
I’m so sorry for your loss - sending hugs and good energy your way. <3
I’m very lucky to have a good relationship with my family, especially with my mother. We’ve been through a lot as a family which has brought us even closer together and I can’t imagine what I would do without them. I definitely need to tell them how much I appreciate them more often.
I’m very lucky to have a good relationship with my family, especially with my mother. We’ve been through a lot as a family which has brought us even closer together and I can’t imagine what I would do without them. I definitely need to tell them how much I appreciate them more often.
no, I absolutely hate them for ignoring my mental health for years and treating it as a laughing subject and a tool to put me down every chance they could, but I wouldn't deny all the good things they've done for me that I didn't deserve in the least.
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
I'm sorry for your loss. May your grandmother have a peaceful afterlife.
As for your question, I don't really love them. I suppose I sort of love my grandfather, as he's the nicest out of the three (my mother and grandmother). He rarely says anything offensive to me, however, his views can be a little bit rubbish. I dislike my mother and grandmother, as they are the ones who verbally and emotionally abuse me. They don't think they're doing anything wrong, since it apparently is normal for our culture. Anyways, 'the elders are always right', they say. It's disgusting, how they can just shield their wrongdoings with that notion. It's frustrating, knowing that your family doesn't really care or understand how you feel. I just hope that I'm able to move out soon, since living here is a little upsetting.
As for your question, I don't really love them. I suppose I sort of love my grandfather, as he's the nicest out of the three (my mother and grandmother). He rarely says anything offensive to me, however, his views can be a little bit rubbish. I dislike my mother and grandmother, as they are the ones who verbally and emotionally abuse me. They don't think they're doing anything wrong, since it apparently is normal for our culture. Anyways, 'the elders are always right', they say. It's disgusting, how they can just shield their wrongdoings with that notion. It's frustrating, knowing that your family doesn't really care or understand how you feel. I just hope that I'm able to move out soon, since living here is a little upsetting.
i resent them, big time.
i love them, big time.
at times one is stronger than the other, but i know i will always love them and never hate them except for one cousin lol
when i was younger there felt like there was some sort of void, it has just been me and my mum since forever and i always felt isolated whenever i went to my nanny's or aunties, it's part of the reason why i had a terrible upbringing that still hurts me to this day. i felt looked down upon because of my mum, she was really distant from all of them and didn't/doesn't value family like i do so they naturally were distant towards her too - although, they often express how much they regret that fact, especially my nanny. i've been bullied my entire life too, and whenever i went to my aunties it felt like that too with my cousins - i also never had (or have) real friends so it just added onto that. i don't think i have ever forgave them or ever will.
the only reason why my mum is in contact with her family today, and i know this for a fact, is because of me. if i wasn't born and if i hadn't encouraged her to go out and contact them ever since i was a kid she wouldn't be in contact with them today - i'm the only thing that prevented her from cutting them all off completely, there were times when she didn't talk to them for months/years. she's very hard to live with and i sometimes can't handle it, she is part of the reason as to why im so miserable today and have been for most of my life, she is completely ignorant to my resentment of her and my health problems - she is often times emotionally abusive and has added on to my deteriorating mental health + hasn't helped with my lack of sociality which has grew worse over time. like the rest of my family, she has reminded me of how 'weird' i am, how i have no friends, how miserable i look all the time (funny how she acknowledges that) and etc...but nah, we'll not ask why or try to help.
but she, like me, is damaged and i can see that and i know why - so i don't want to make a big deal out of it and would rather help myself, it's hard keeping it all in and recently i've been cracking after years of storing all this hate, anger and sadness. it really is better to let it out but i have no real outlet, so i can't.
i love them, big time.
at times one is stronger than the other, but i know i will always love them and never hate them except for one cousin lol
when i was younger there felt like there was some sort of void, it has just been me and my mum since forever and i always felt isolated whenever i went to my nanny's or aunties, it's part of the reason why i had a terrible upbringing that still hurts me to this day. i felt looked down upon because of my mum, she was really distant from all of them and didn't/doesn't value family like i do so they naturally were distant towards her too - although, they often express how much they regret that fact, especially my nanny. i've been bullied my entire life too, and whenever i went to my aunties it felt like that too with my cousins - i also never had (or have) real friends so it just added onto that. i don't think i have ever forgave them or ever will.
the only reason why my mum is in contact with her family today, and i know this for a fact, is because of me. if i wasn't born and if i hadn't encouraged her to go out and contact them ever since i was a kid she wouldn't be in contact with them today - i'm the only thing that prevented her from cutting them all off completely, there were times when she didn't talk to them for months/years. she's very hard to live with and i sometimes can't handle it, she is part of the reason as to why im so miserable today and have been for most of my life, she is completely ignorant to my resentment of her and my health problems - she is often times emotionally abusive and has added on to my deteriorating mental health + hasn't helped with my lack of sociality which has grew worse over time. like the rest of my family, she has reminded me of how 'weird' i am, how i have no friends, how miserable i look all the time (funny how she acknowledges that) and etc...but nah, we'll not ask why or try to help.
but she, like me, is damaged and i can see that and i know why - so i don't want to make a big deal out of it and would rather help myself, it's hard keeping it all in and recently i've been cracking after years of storing all this hate, anger and sadness. it really is better to let it out but i have no real outlet, so i can't.
Captain Avian
Senior Member
I love my immediate family (parents, siblings, and my grandma) and then my mom's side of the family. Dad's side I don't care too much about, there's a lot of drama there and they honestly don't feel like fam to me.
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oath2order
#Porygon2024
Yes, I do.
i'm sorry for ur loss, i hope she's resting peacefully
i don't think i can explain how much i love my family, they've never doubted me, always supported every decision i've made, they're patient with me, help me learn for my mistakes and encourage me in every way possible, i'm so incredibly blessed to have such open minded and lovely people around me. i've struggled a lot lately mentally, still being at home and not being able to get into the field i want to due to low confidence, it's been so easy for me to feel like i'm a burden but not once have they treated me that way
i don't think i can explain how much i love my family, they've never doubted me, always supported every decision i've made, they're patient with me, help me learn for my mistakes and encourage me in every way possible, i'm so incredibly blessed to have such open minded and lovely people around me. i've struggled a lot lately mentally, still being at home and not being able to get into the field i want to due to low confidence, it's been so easy for me to feel like i'm a burden but not once have they treated me that way
sure i do. someone had to bear this alluring specimen of purity and perfection after all, someone has to drive my wheelchair to the dates, and someone needs to calm my vices. i love my mom, my sister, my dead little brother, my surviving little brother, my old people, my sperm donor, my step-dude, his sweet but irritating old people, the uncs and the aunts, everyone. my cousin's huge ears fascinate me.
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