Helpful Advice/Basic Answers

[Hulaette]

This thread is for users who need a simple answer or advice for minor everyday things that we face. Please bare in mind that some of us have no one else to turn to in real life so be kind and understanding. So to start this off I need help understanding something in my screwed up horrible dysfunctional life.

So everyday Vanessa (not going to use real names here) does her exercise routine in the house and has some space cleared out for them. She does this every single day and if there is a small object in the way that "she can't move out of the way" than whooaa, there's hell to pay! (btw she has shown that she CAN move things out of the way for herself) Every now and than Vanessa's caretaker comes to me complaining for me to move things out of the way next time. Also I know that Vanessa talks behind my back making excuses as to why this should be my problem. It's like this If there's a problem for herself than she makes it everyone's problem to deal with.

 

[namiieco]

This thread is for users who need a simple answer or advice for minor everyday things that we face. Please bare in mind that some of us have no one else to turn to in real life so be kind and understanding. So to start this off I need help understanding something in my screwed up horrible dysfunctional life.

So everyday Vanessa (not going to use real names here) does her exercise routine in the house and has some space cleared out for them. She does this every single day and if there is a small object in the way that "she can't move out of the way" than whooaa, there's hell to pay! (btw she has shown that she CAN move things out of the way for herself) Every now and than Vanessa's caretaker comes to me complaining for me to move things out of the way next time. Also I know that Vanessa talks behind my back making excuses as to why this should be my problem. It's like this If there's a problem for herself than she makes it everyone's problem to deal with.

Guys, help. My meatball fell off my plate, rolled along the ground, rolled out the door and into a bush! I can't find it anywhere! Please help!

 

[Aquari]

Guys, help. My meatball fell off my plate, rolled along the ground, rolled out the door and into a bush! I can't find it anywhere! Please help!

well thats usually how you know that you dun goofed-up in life, just give up now while you still have the chance

 

[namiieco]

well thats usually how you know that you dun goofed-up in life, just give up now while you still have the chance

Oh.. Thank you for the advice!

 

[TheGreatBrain]

This thread is for users who need a simple answer or advice for minor everyday things that we face. Please bare in mind that some of us have no one else to turn to in real life so be kind and understanding. So to start this off I need help understanding something in my screwed up horrible dysfunctional life.

So everyday Vanessa (not going to use real names here) does her exercise routine in the house and has some space cleared out for them. She does this every single day and if there is a small object in the way that "she can't move out of the way" than whooaa, there's hell to pay! (btw she has shown that she CAN move things out of the way for herself) Every now and than Vanessa's caretaker comes to me complaining for me to move things out of the way next time. Also I know that Vanessa talks behind my back making excuses as to why this should be my problem. It's like this If there's a problem for herself than she makes it everyone's problem to deal with.

Just make sure that everythings out of the way when she does her workout. Try not to let her get to you.

 

[Hulaette]

Just make sure that everythings out of the way when she does her workout. Try not to let her get to you.

The problem is that she can move the freaking handheld sized objects out of the way. Everyone has seen her bend down to pick things up and move it to the side. So for her to talk behind my back (I know that's what she doe's when I'm sleeping in) is just her starting drama and trying to make me jealous. I need a solution how to confront her about this the next time she tries to pull this ridiculous "I can't do anything for myself" act.

 

[Hulaette]

SERIOUS SITUATION

So I will be having a meeting with my roomates and some of their family members about the ongoing issue that I have mentioned in a few threads a while ago. I will be saying how I feel about certain things that will expose the lies of a narcissist who I had to put up with for 6 years. Well, it ends tomarrow! I will NOT be ignored! I will FINALLY be heard! As some of you might have lived with a narcissist in the family so you'll understand what will happen when the mask falls off the narc's face...right? Can someone with experience please tell me what might happen when this mean hateful old lady gets confronted? Like she will be caught in so many lies and she will be exposed as the hateful lying nasty spiteful person that she truly is. When that happens in front of 9 people what will she say or what will she do?!