I hope I don't come across as attention-seeking with this!
My parents have stuck together through the years. I was raised by the both of them in the same home. Sometimes I felt that it would be better with them separated, though. By the time I was in 4th grade, the fighting was almost nonstop. My dad lost his job and my mom became the breadwinner, which put unfathomable amounts of stress on her. He struggled to find a steady job over the next few years, and actually didn't really find one that was steady until this year.
They fought all the time about EVERYTHING, but especially money. My mom turned to alcohol as a way to cope with her stress, and her alcoholism only added more stress to all of us involved (my sister, brother and myself, as well as other family members of course.) It was mostly exigent to me because I'm kind of the "peacemaker," and I'd have to diffuse a lot of situations.
I feel like them getting divorced would have helped all of us in the long run... But things have gotten better through the years, and now my parents really only bicker like an old married couple-that is, they aren't really at each other's throats as much.
One of my biggest pet peeves has come from this, though: people often assume that because my parents are together, that everything in my life is golden and I should really not have much to complain about. :/ This is incredibly dismissive. When people say things like this, it really just makes me feel small, honestly. I'm kinda rambling now so I'll wrap up... If anyone else out there has problems with their parents like this, divorced or together, you're always welcome to talk to me.