Why do mothers...

[xKiYoMiNaTiONx]

Sigh... I really don't know where else to put this on here, and I just wanna let it all out...

Why do mothers have to be this way? I maybe 27, but it's so annoying! This always, always happens when my dad goes away on a trip and leaves me and my sister with our mom at home... I was really hoping that mom would go with him.

Every time we're left with our mom, I just get soooo frustrated, antsy, anxious, upset... Ughhh... I get more anxiety/panic attacks when she is around more than when she isn't around.

She keeps on asking for the bills... My dad tells me to hide the bills.. and then she comes into my room and starts looking for anything bill like in the room... and I hate...hate...HATE IT when people start looking through MY THINGS in MY ROOM!... Yeah, I KNOW it's not my HOUSE, but... I feel like I have no privacy since I don't even have a lock on my door either...

I got so frustrated that I just gave her the whole stack of mail that was in my room. It's not even half of the mail... ughhh...

I just wanna sleep and never wake up sometimes... I mean... Here..I just woke up, and then she's demanding crud... It upsets me and I hate it!!!!

I'm in such a bad mood now... and I let Maple move on the pretense that I'd be able to get Aurora from someone on tumblr, but no reply from them... and then I guess there isn't any luck for Fang or Sprinkle...

Someone, please bring up my mood... or I might just end up doing something drastic... =(

 

[Kaiaa]

I don't really know your circumstances but if it bothers you so much you need to let your mom know. I know it's hard and that you don't want to make her upset but what you don't realize is that maybe she doesn't know that you feel like this. You mom is just being a mom, she's probably used to looking at and figuring bills and making sure you're alright but that's your personal stuff. The next time she does it tell her you appreciate her concern but please don't go through your room without your permission. You're an adult now and she should respect the fact that you want privacy.

Unfortunately, I can't help you with your dreamies but you might look around the VTP a little
Just remember your mom isn't doing this with the intent of making you mad, alright? So smile! Be assertive but not rude and you'll find that you are going to be happier letting your mom come over!

 

[xKiYoMiNaTiONx]

I don't really know your circumstances but if it bothers you so much you need to let your mom know. I know it's hard and that you don't want to make her upset but what you don't realize is that maybe she doesn't know that you feel like this. You mom is just being a mom, she's probably used to looking at and figuring bills and making sure you're alright but that's your personal stuff. The next time she does it tell her you appreciate her concern but please don't go through your room without your permission. You're an adult now and she should respect the fact that you want privacy.

Unfortunately, I can't help you with your dreamies but you might look around the VTP a little
Just remember your mom isn't doing this with the intent of making you mad, alright? So smile! Be assertive but not rude and you'll find that you are going to be happier letting your mom come over!

Unfortunately, I have not been able to see eye to eye with my mom for about 2-3 years already...

She keeps telling me to get a job...but I can't handle society. I have really severe panic attacks where I faint right on the spot if I even leave the house. >_<