also idek about it's harmful either like hey go nag someone else also idek she thinks i stay there too much like "i'm your mom not her" and tries pulling that shizz and she's overprotective AS F**K.. for real worse than most parents i swear and idek she doesn't think i can take responsibility i guess?? like obv. if it was a real work at a real workplace i wouldn't sleep there.. it's this one time because of the time and she actually offered that first i never asked.