Xara

@Roxxy @Doo @Yoshi155 @jiny @Suguri @Mr_Keroppi thank you all for your kind words and for taking the time to message me, i appreciate it and you all dearly. i don't have it in me to reply individually right now, but please know that your kindness really does mean a lot to me.

I LOVE YOU SM XARA! I just saw your post and I want you to know I will always be here for you and all of us on the forum absolutely ADORE YOU. You are always so kind, friendly, and compassionate. I know how you feel because thats how I felt almost all school year but I know it will get better. This year will be better for me and hopefully you too! Its hard but we have to be positive and think if people dont like how iconic we are they dont deserve usss LOVE YOU FRIENDO

Hi Xara, from me to you: You gotta believe!

heyy xara, sending u lots of love, ive been seeing your posts lately and i just wanna say how much i resonate w them as well, its so exhausting comparing ourselves to other people, and i know how much we both just want to feel wanted. but i wanna let u know ur definitely not alone! i, for one, love seeing you around the forums, idk the forum wouldnt feel the same without seeing your posts or seeing Bonk pics :c

i wish i could do something or say something more that could make you feel so much better !!! but i do care about you and i enjoy your presence, and so do many others on the forums!!! dont ever forget that

Xara, I know two other people have said it already, and I’ve already said it once, but you are important and you do matter. Don’t ever think that you don’t.

We want you here Xara, you are important. I wish there was more I could say to make you feel better, but I don’t know you well enough. I care about you, and I want you to feel like you belong.
PS: you’ve got to be Bonk’s favourite person! I hope she’s taking care of you

Xara my love, you are amazing and kind and sweet and wonderful. You are honestly one of the reasons I am still here. You make the world brighter and ily

sending you some happy gay axolotl vibes today love

Hey Xara, congrats on your team win! I'm not sure where you've placed in previous events, but way to go! You're a great member and friend and you deserve that win! (I meant to message this way earlier but oh god I've been so scatterbrained lately it's alarming lol)

Good job!

xara… the message brb sobbing

Hey Xara! I'm not sure why Aurora skies remind me of you... but I saw this skirt when looking at tumblr and it reminded me of you!!

AAA I'm so sorry but I wanted to give you a personal thank you bc your messages in my thread actually meant a lot to me! I won't get too into it ofc but I've been having small bouts of mental health crisis' and I constantly get scared that people will blow up and be angry at me for whatever reason so I'm 100% sincere when I say that your kindness goes a long way for someone like me. I'm happy to be able to interact with people who are so caring! ; v ; Overall I just wanted to say thank you so much but if I keep going, I'll rant away and repeat myself ahahah;; <33

your cheer is so cute! Also I wanted to say I love seeing your rep in the banner

THIS IS SO RANDOM AKGJDRJK but i love seeing ur character around the forums... ORZ shes just so cute the sweater is everything

I just saw your WBY post earlier and you are very likeable! You're sweet and you're interesting and you're fun to be around!! If it helps at all with perspective, I also really related to a lot of the things you mentioned in your post, and to what Zerous said below. I've talked to my parents about feeling like I wasn't anyone's favorite either, in those exact words—and I don't think the three of us are the only ones who feel this way. Even if I have a hard time believing it for myself sometimes, I think these insecurities and self-doubts are irrational things. They're evil little thoughts that aren't founded in reality, but still try to make us feel lesser.

Congrats on making it to the banner! ^^

Hi Xara, just wanted to say that what Croc’s said is true. I’ve only been here a couple of months and you’ve made me feel welcome, especially recently during TBTWC. I think you’re really friendly and sweet! I don’t think you’re annoying. I can tell you truly care about your friends here and it’s lovely to see.

I saw your post in the WBY thread, the one about how you wished you could see yourself from someone else’s point of view? Something along those lines… but I really vibe with your aesthetics each time you come up with something. You’re one of the most iconic members of this forum. Your posts always stand out to me, notably in the “happy” thread because of your colorful emojis you use in the posts. I don’t usually reach out to people on here but I’d say you’re one of the more approachable here! I always see you greeting new members and making them feel welcome and I think that’s important!

I just wanted to say, your lineup rn is absolutely GORGEOUS I love it sm

Also, I can relate to your WBY post, I often feel the same. But you come across as quite the opposite as unlikeable, at least to me. And I think how beloved you are by so many of us on here is testament to the fact I'm not alone in feeling that way You've always come across as so kind and supportive, and I actually look up to you in terms of how to talk to people online sometimes ngl.

About that post you made in the WBY thread, sometimes I kind of feel like that too, but I don’t think you come across as annoying or unlikeable in your posts. I actually really like reading them.