I agree with you! I have been a bit...it really bothers me when time travelers get a lot of criticism because as long as you're playing the game you want to and you're happy, I don't see where the problem is...the game may be "intended" to be played day by day straight through, but not everyone has the ability to do that. I don't have time to sit down and devote time to a game every single day, with work and classes and whatnot, therefore if I want to do things a few days early or go back to do something I missed i'm not going to feel guilty doing so. It's not like we (
most time travelers, I suppose) do it with any bad intentions, and it doesn't effect other players in a negative way. I think it'd be a little different if Animal Crossing was a ~competitive game, then i'd definitely consider it "cheating", but it's really just supposed to be a leisurely game so I just don't justify it as "cheating". I know most people do and that's fine, everyone can have their own opinion on it, I really think the focus should be on having fun with the game.
I basically just travel ahead by a day or two whenever I run out of things to do. I don't time travel for holidays and events (unless I legitimately miss them), as I don't think experiencing them out of season is much fun. Everyone claims that if you time travel you'll get bored of the game faster, but ever since I discovered that it was possible back with Population Growing, I've never really gotten bored with a game, at least not in a way that I could contribute it to time traveling. I like it because if I
do get bored I can move on to the next day. Again, others feel different and that's fine, I just figured i'd share that from my perspective it doesn't make the game get more boring faster.
Anyways, in New Leaf I also have the Dream Suite (I actually got it yesterday but I just tried it out for the first time tonight), Kicks, the Club, and the island...I just saved up enough medals to get the Club Tortimer invitation thing so I think i'm gonna try that out in a bit.