Are we wrong to book a family holiday?

[namiieco]

Just go. I live in London and it's -quite- a nice place. It's very busy XD
Maybe you could talk with your grandma a bit? I'm not sure because I've never encountered any situation lie, your but you could give it a shot?

 

[Mr. Cat]

I'd be worried that your grandmother is a classic narcissist. Get away. Your dad doesn't deserve that.

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Nah, your grandma sounds like a class A narcissist.

Oh good, I'm not the only one who thought this. Sorry to repeat it. You might want to research narcissism, and if you think it applies, tell your dad about it. I had similar things happen to me with my son's grandmother. Currently trying to get my boyfriend to realize how awful she is to me (and him) so we can live in peace. But of course that's not an easy task, she's his mother...

 

[SensaiGallade]

I am very sorry to hear about you Mum. I wouldn't be able to express how I would feel they way you have if this happened to me.

Your not in the wrong at all! It just seems like your grandparents are being utter ****s and using a tragic event to make your Dad feel really bad and down. If you want to go on a trip with close family, then do that. Controlling people like that should have no say in what you and your close family do. If I'm honest and I was your Grandparent, I would be happy to see your doing something in memory of your Mum. Please, enjoy yourself and don't let the haters hate!

 

[Chelsaurus]

Thanks EVERYONE! I just wanted to make sure that we wasnt in the wrong for going on holiday and if we was then of course try and make it right before we went to London. So thanks for everyones opinions. Youve all given me so much to think about in terms of my grandma- everyone who has commented on my grandmas 'personality' is completely right haha

I will defo have a lovely time in London with my brothers and dad thanks again for your help and support guys!