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I think I need a lunatic in my life, to be honest. I need a complete nutter to come along and show me how quiet and lifeless the world really is. I know that sounds a little strange, but a great date spot in my opinion would be somewhere old and derelict. Places like that just have a certain atmosphere to them that isn't very pleasant at all, but it's as if those places are lost in time, and you could never truly slap a date on them or talk about their history. They're not artificial anymore, and they're surprisingly very earthy. I think places like that bring out the love in two people, because it feels like you're the only two people in the world, and even if you discover later on that you're in fact not the only two people in the world, you can still cause mayhem together.
I think that if somebody took me to a place like that, I know he'd be the one for me, just 'cause I really do think it's perfect. A lot of people would accuse me of just trying to sound different or act all disturbing, but I really do think it's beautiful. It's a beautiful position to be in, surprisingly. You're in a place where, without that person by your side, you'd feel incredibly vulnerable and alone. But you're not alone, and the love really emits from one person to another. So, I'd love to go ahead and do that. That doesn't mean I wouldn't appreciate being taken to a nice restaurant and all that, but I think it's the best way to stand the test of time, so to speak. I think it's important to make connections like that. For me, it would be something I'd want to do quite often, just for air.
I want somebody I can laugh with and do silly things with. I'm a very strong person, I find, and I like my independence and all that, not just creatively. On the other hand, though, I also want to feel like I belong to somebody, if that makes any sense. I want the love, but I kinda want it to be a little rough at times, you know? For obvious reasons I won't go into detail, but I want that feeling of belonging, for sure. I need a lunatic not only because there's so much I want to do with someone, but also because I'm a lunatic myself and I feel like I need another lunatic so that I can do those things with someone, and they wouldn't be doing it just to make me happy.
As for marriage, I'll probably get married, but I doubt it'll be legal. I've always liked the idea of non-legal weddings, just because you can have everything you want and be surrounded by love, without ever having to worry about the legal side of it, and all the complications. If I get married, I want there to be noting but love. Love is the most important thing. I'm not trying to say legal marriage lacks in that or anything, but I just don't think it's for me.
I don't like the idea of settling down at all, so I probably won't have children. I can't put my foot down and say for sure, but right now, I couldn't see it. I want somebody I can travel the world with and do stupid things with. Again, a lunatic. I don't think I'd be a very responsible parent, in all honesty. If I did want children, I'd want to be there for them all the time, and with all I want to do with my life and with a partner, children just wouldn't fit in that circle, so to speak.
Wow, this is a long answer.
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Wow it's truly great that you know what you want. I still personally have no clue of love and what I truly want in the end. It's just so out there for me to comprehend you know? I still need to find myself and know what I want in life in general, nows just not the time.
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