Yeah sorry, I didn't mean for that to look so condescending. I just happen to like the game having lots of random unpredictable things, even if I end up losing a great item lol. I think it adds some spice, and yea maybe it's annoying but that's part of the fun for me. And in terms of villager interactions (dialogue or otherwise), the games have definitely taken a more family-friendly gentler tone which is quite nice in it's own way but definitely feels lacking to me. In a game where nothing would go wrong, I'd be bored.
If it's any consolation, I don't think you were being condescending at all. I was just confused with how your post was worded. It's why I find
Wild World's villagers to be more tolerable than their GC counterparts, despite there being lines in that game which were honestly just as harsh.
WW was less in-your-face about how horribly villagers could treat you and they didn't try to screw you over at any given opportunity. I still find this writing to more often be annoying and incoherent, rather than funny; especially if it's from a villager who doesn't have any business insulting you when it contradicts what their personality establishes them to be as (it's why Peppies were among my least favorite in both games).
Again, I'm not entirely against villagers being rude, and I do understand why people would want this back, but it needs to be balanced and actually be concordant to certain characters, instead of every personality of a every villager holding the jerkass ball to varying degrees. It also shouldn't be villagers hurling insults at you, then trying to be friendly, as if they forgot how unpleasant they were being not too long ago. I'd love to eludicate more about the arguments people have had over villagers being "too nice" or villagers being "extremely unlikable", but I feel it'd just be another of @Onlooker's tangents on the dialogue of a game series with talking animals. Back to the OP:
As what was suggested here already, as much as I hated this, if villagers actually gave a legitimate reason to rob you (i.e.
breaking stealing your net because you hit them too many times) and/or if they apologized and gave the thing they stole back to you, or even just
hid it somewhere for you to find, I'll still think it was dumb, but I'll be less vehement about it.