themysterybidder
Senior Member
Hello everyone! I cannot thank everyone enough who has replied to this thread or have sent DMs offering support and telling me about your experiences with ACNH. I am really touched by all your kindness, and especially as I am still relatively new here, only joining at the end of May. I have felt so welcomed and I wouldn’t normally share anything like this, but I feel comfortable chatting to members here. @KittenNoir , I can relate to that as I have immune system problems and a few physical health issues.
Last Wednesday, we collected her ashes and I know it may sound silly, but I have felt better knowing that she is back ‘with me’. Slowly, the tears of sadness and despair are turning to tears of laughter remembering all her funny ways and her singing along to her favourite songs or humming along if she didn’t know the words!
I do think I’m in a better place than even than last week. Although I still can’t get out of getting up at around 4am, but I don’t really mind as I like to get my work done then the rest of the day is mine.
With that said, I still obviously miss her like crazy and will never stop missing or loving her. I think about her every day, look at pictures and family videos. I know it’s going to be extremely tough at special occasions and especially Christmas as that was her favourite time of the year. As soon as it hit September she was starting to look online for new decorations and gadgets. Even though we have more than enough decorations to fill Blathers’ Museum, she always wanted some new ones! We’re still putting the decorations up as she absolutely loved them and all the Christmas lights.
I’m hopefully back into the swing of playing ACNH now (and posting a vast number of Buck screenshots!) as I would never usually miss a day. Looking forward to getting back into it and also my 2nd island, as I’ve not really done anything with that one and I’ve had it since June! That’s a good project to get started with day by day. Planning to flatten that one and maybe move the campsite over to the Resident Services area.
Once again, thank you to everyone, and I would like to say a special thanks to a few members, you know who you are!
Jenny
Last Wednesday, we collected her ashes and I know it may sound silly, but I have felt better knowing that she is back ‘with me’. Slowly, the tears of sadness and despair are turning to tears of laughter remembering all her funny ways and her singing along to her favourite songs or humming along if she didn’t know the words!
I do think I’m in a better place than even than last week. Although I still can’t get out of getting up at around 4am, but I don’t really mind as I like to get my work done then the rest of the day is mine.
With that said, I still obviously miss her like crazy and will never stop missing or loving her. I think about her every day, look at pictures and family videos. I know it’s going to be extremely tough at special occasions and especially Christmas as that was her favourite time of the year. As soon as it hit September she was starting to look online for new decorations and gadgets. Even though we have more than enough decorations to fill Blathers’ Museum, she always wanted some new ones! We’re still putting the decorations up as she absolutely loved them and all the Christmas lights.
I’m hopefully back into the swing of playing ACNH now (and posting a vast number of Buck screenshots!) as I would never usually miss a day. Looking forward to getting back into it and also my 2nd island, as I’ve not really done anything with that one and I’ve had it since June! That’s a good project to get started with day by day. Planning to flatten that one and maybe move the campsite over to the Resident Services area.
Once again, thank you to everyone, and I would like to say a special thanks to a few members, you know who you are!
Jenny