Mayor Monday - Thank you!
itsaplatypus - Thank you, so much! For someone new to knitting, I'd say first, check out
Ravelry. You can join for free and it's an awesome database for patterns of all sorts. Plus, there are forums where you can chat with others and get advice.
The website I hit up most often is for lefty knitters, so that probably won't be much of a help, but I have heard some good things about the YouTube channel
Very Pink Knits. There are a lot of other channels that might work for you, as well.
If I had to say one book... well, I'm going to give two. The first is Stitch 'n ***** by Debbie Stoller. The first part is all about how to knit and then it has several projects of varying degrees of difficulty that you can try. The second book is Vogue Knitting: The Knitter's Handbook. I have a copy of this and constantly use it to look up stitches I don't do often or some technique I'm a bit fuzzy on.
The absolute best advice though, would be to check out your local library, community center, or yarn shop. There are classes and groups for all skill levels offered all the time. Even some craft stores have classes you can take. The weekly group I go to at my yarn shop (it's technically a class, so they charge $5, but they give us a huge discount if you buy any yarn, supplies, or books) is a lot of fun. Everyone jumps in to help if you have a question, there's lots of praise for how your project is coming along, and we have random party nights. And nothing beats someone sitting right there to help you figure out what happened to your knitting when you weren't looking.
Sorry to go on so long, but I hope that gives you somewhere to start. If you have questions, feel free to shoot me a message.