Hmm. Thats a more complicated situation I suppose, yes I would just ask a mod. Just reading though the rules the section on feedback it only states that "Feedback should only be used for in-game experiences and auctions organized on The Bell Tree for any online Animal Crossing game. Moderators may remove obvious violations of the feedback system, but cannot intermediate between in-game disputes" which doesn't really seem to relate specifically with your situation. Yeah the whole having to craft and special order certain things does seem like the individual burdened you unfairly due to their own indecisiveness, but that would be crummy if you left a negative feedback to which they respond with negative feedback for you if the mods can't remove any of it. When in doubt, I suppose asking is the best bet. but I see thats what you were going to do regardless lol