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What do you mean by judgmental? I‘m not going to criticize you, but smoking is unhealthy, so that might be a reason.
speaking from experience, i overheard my brother's girlfriend vehemently declare that all people who smoke are "disgusting" when it's an addiction that can be hard to break out of, same as any other. perhaps that's what op means by judgmental; that while it might be unhealthy, it's also an addiction, and so we shouldn't judge and label all people who engage in the behavior when we don't know their history (or lack thereof) with trying to quit or what made them smoke in the first place.
 
i genuinely don't understand the vehement refusal to adjust language to make others comfortable. it is not going to kill you or hurt you or mentally impact you to refer to someone as he/him even if they outwardly look feminine. it is not going to kill you or hurt you or mentally impact you to not use dude if someone points out that they'd prefer not to be referred to as such. it is not going to kill you or hurt you or mentally impact you to call someone by a name that might not be on their nametag or ID. but, believe it or not, doing the opposite does hurt and mentally impact the person you're talking to. and for what? because you want to be contrarian? because you can't be bothered to understand? because the only comfort that matters is your own? because trying to adjust your language and not use certain words is such a chore that someone else's comfort in a space be damned? i shake my head in pity and disbelief. people like that are just self-centered and narrow-minded.
 
Doing some research for my novel (or short story, still not sure.), stargazing is one of my character's hobbies.
Why are these pictures so pretty! :love:

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It's nice knowing that my friends accept me in terms of my sexual orientation + gender identity. I think my parents try to be suuportive, but they don't quite undertand. And we don't talk about Bruno, no, no, no my brother...
 
Of course as soon as I finally start to fix my sleep schedule, Daylight Savings puts the clock an hour forward. Though I am glad the sun will now set an hour later which means I might actually see it now.

Personally, I think we should just have Daylight Savings all year. I would gladly have it be dark outside when I wake up if it means one more hour of light in the evening. Because it's seriously depressing when you spend the entire day at school/work, then it's already twilight by the time you're off.
 
uhh.. so i don’t mean to start anything on here but was the “what’s bothering you thread” deleted or something because i can’t find it.
 
Oh my god you're right, I can't find it either. But threads can only be locked and not deleted, so I don't really know what happened to it.
Yeah, someone reacted to a post I made and I was at work. I wanted to see which post it was, but now the whole thread is gone. I’m so confused? Unless drama happened while I was at work?
 
Some people were arguing about something in the thread, so if I had to guess it was because of that.
Oh, dang. I don’t even know what the topic was about. If it had anything to do with politics, though, things like that always seem to get heated.
 
Some people were arguing about something in the thread, so if I had to guess it was because of that.
I am trying to contact the mods about this, because you would think they would lock the thread and explain the reason why its being locked. I mean look what happened with the "Unpopular Opinions" Thread a few months ago.
 
I am trying to contact the mods about this, because you would think they would lock the thread and explain the reason why its being locked. I mean look what happened with the "Unpopular Opinions" Thread a few months ago.
I liked the “what’s bothering you” thread. I liked posting on there my thoughts. I’m kind of glad that unpopular opinions thread is locked for good, or at least it seems that way.
 
I miss the Unpopular Opinions thread. Strange that "What's Bothering You" was seemingly taken down, it's a great place to vent.

Random unrelated thought: Tim Tams are so good
 
I liked the “what’s bothering you” thread. I liked posting on there my thoughts. I’m kind of glad that unpopular opinions thread is locked for good, or at least it seems that way.
I really don't understand why people feel the need to pick fights with others just because they have a different viewpoint or opinion. I swear politics need to be banned on this site. This has gone for far enough.
 
I'd just let it go for now. If we're meant to get an explanation, we'll get one. If not, it will either stay down, or quietly pop back up. The staff taking it down indicates that they felt there was good reason to take it down, either temporarily or permanently.
What shocked me is that when they locked the Unpopular Opinions Thread they say how "nobody" reported the content and it was now they found out that there was a lot of abusive comments so thats the part when it was deleted. They tried to tell people to behave but it didn't work so what happened was they closed the thread "indefinitely" meaning that it may never open up again.
 
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