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Relationship Advice Crisis !!

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I'm in need of crush advice!! I am a freshman and I have a huge crush on a sophomore who (most likely) already knows that I like him. Even though we ride the bus together, I'd rather tell him my feelings at school than the bus ride. Any tips? (I was going to tell him tomorrow but truthfully I don't think I have the courage. Plus, there's the huge chance he is not interested in me.)
 
Most important thing is communication. Never hide your feelings or be passive-aggressive.

So, basically, just tell him! If he doesn't like you, there's a lot of (hot) fish in the sea.
 
Yep! Just be honest! It worked for me with my bf. I had a crush on him for a couple of months and then just decided to go for it and asked him out. We've been dating for over a year now.

100% just be honest and ask him! :)
 
Same as what those above had said, just be honest and tell him, the worst thing that could happen is he will say he's not interested and that will be that. But like Bowie said, there's a lot more guys out there. =]
 
I don't think you have to ask right away. Do little flirty things and test this body language to make sure it isn't like, disgusted. XD Try and casually touch him, maybe even give him a hug. I gave my bf a hug before we dated or spilled the beans of crushes and apparently he knew I liked him to some degree after the hug. If his signs are all positive, I'd move forward and ask him.
 
Thanks everyone! Sadly, I didn't tell him how I felt, but I will do that on Monday. If anyone else would like to give me adivce, go for it! I'm always open!
 
yeah...i say ask him if he wants to hang out, get something to eat, ...just relax and go for it..if he's not interested then he's just not the one for you and there will be someone else out there who will see how awesome you are..
 
Go for it! Today in my A Hour I had to blow my nose really bad AND OF COURSE my teacher didn't have any tissues so I choose to go to the bathroom and I have my hands over my face ya know and in the half I stop cause I saw this really really attractive girl and I just make eye contact with her and start to stutter and say "oh oh wow you are..really attractive" and then I went to the bathroom and she followed me but I took too long and she started walking back and I caught up with her and I sat next to her and she gave me chocolate and we started talking and her name is Jeri and she's so nice and it turns out she just got out of a relationship and we have a lot in common (I got her number). I don't wanna eat the chocolate cause its special to me now oops. I hope I can get to know her better and maybe Ill ask her to the Sadie Hawkins dance in a few months... guys please don't judge me because I'm bisexual keep it to yourself I already have sucky depression and anxiety and it won't help if you get upset at me because of what gender I like so thank you and have a good day
 
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