restart his town?

[ZebraQueen]

I'm so furious with my bf that I'm thinking to actually restart his town
the reason
I was playing a game that I'm a beginner and then he was like "no use this and that" because he watch all the video
And I'm like those persons that I wanna learn why playing the game

2 he was embarrassing me in our date because he does care about manners so everyone was looking at us then he yell to stop looking at us

And now I threatened him to erase his town but then he erase mine and sell his game when I could get all his animal back

- - - Post Merge - - -

So what should I do?
I don't want to break up its been 3 years
But just this time -sigh-

 

[Rose]

This isn't relevant to New Leaf at all, so you really should post relationship problems in The Basement if you need to share them. Also? Don't touch his town. Two wrongs don't make a right, so don't set the basis for petty revenge in a relationship.

I hope you two aren't adults.

 

[tae]

don't be rude.
deleting his town is petty and childish.

 

[ZebraQueen]

I'm 20 his 19
And this is revelant because everything started with new leaf and I have his game trying to get all his villager

- - - Post Merge - - -

Well he jus call me stupid for me not hearing me and just let me cried all alone because I dint play the game like he wanted
Plus he forcing me to do his town because he doesn't play it

 

[Rose]

Seriously, just don't touch the guy's town. That is ridiculous.

 

[tae]

then just stop playing his town...?
he can't make you do anything.

 

[seliph]

I'm 20 his 19

right

both of you are childish u should break up til you stop acting like you're 5

 

[Miii]

If you really care about this guy, then don't get revenge. If he's a jerk and treats you like crap, still don't get revenge, just break up with him. 3 wasted years is much better than 10 or 20 wasted years.

Also, this really should be go in The Basement...

 

[Red Cat]

I don't quite understand the situation as you described it, but if he has already deleted your town, then yeah you should delete his town as payback (I don't know why you two would have access to each other's games). If he hasn't done anything to your town and you are upset just because the relationship is going downhill, then don't delete his town because that won't help anything.

 

[Crash]

first off, I agree with the others, this thread belongs in Brewster's or the basement because it's more about your relationship rather than NL.
in terms of your post, if I'm understanding you right, your boyfriend sounds kinda like a ****. don't delete his town regardless of what he's done, because that's just feeding into things and making you just as bad as he is. but you seem to do a lot for this guy (or at least from what I've seen from your other posts that mention him) and it's never a good idea to stay in a parasitic relationship. I don't know all the details of course, but don't stay with someone just because you've been together for three years; stay because you're happy. if you're not, leave. it's hard, but it's what needs to be done.

all in all, no, don't delete his town. be the better person.​

 

[Romaki]

That sounds extremely childish. And you shouldn't punish someone for the kind of character they have, that's just messed up.

But I have to admit, I had the same 'relationship' when I was 10.

 

[Belle of Pripyat]

Why don't you play your game and let him play his? Only children threaten to take someone's game and erase it. If you do mess up his game, don't cry if he does the same to you because you'd deserve it. And if you're thinking of breaking up over something as silly as this, you might as well do it. Maybe you need a break from each other in order to grow up.

 

[Twisterheart]

Deleting his town would be childish. Don't do it.

 

[Rainbowkisses33]

That just wrong, sometimes you have to be the bigger person and not delete his town. It won't solve anything and just make him like you less.

 

[ZebraQueen]

-sigh- just stop people I'm not gonna do it I'm crying very much
Plus no one understand what we're going thru right now and plus he hit me in the face

 

[Blueskyy]

Um this is really out of place. I feel kinda awkward even reading this. If he hit you though then just get away from him...

- - - Post Merge - - -

Also it sounds like your relationship revolves around AC. That's cool and I get the love for the game, but I'm going on a date with someone tomorrow and I can't wait to put the game away and have drinks with real people. Take a break from the relationship and maybe the game. Also please don't take that the wrong way. Just my advice and two cents.

 

[ZebraQueen]

He just blaming it all on me because the way I play everything and I'm the mature one and he not accepting to be mature
But I'm weak in term of hurting people
I can't and love him too much
Plus my first town he erased it by accident

 

[Crash]

actually there are many people that probably do understand what you're going through, and most of us are trying to give you the advice you asked for.

if he hit you, you need to leave. that's not love. don't delude yourself into thinking it is. if you're 20, put down the game (and realize it's kinda silly to be involving it in this fight anyway) and go for a drive, leave the situation.​

 

[Belle of Pripyat]

-sigh- just stop people I'm not gonna do it I'm crying very much
Plus no one understand what we're going thru right now and plus he hit me in the face

If he puts his hands on you, call the police. No one ever has the right to hit you. He doesn't love you. I'm sorry, but this "relationship" is a hot mess that will only continue to get worse as time goes on.

 

[Miii]

If he puts his hands on you, call the police. No one ever has the right to hit you. He doesn't love you. I'm sorry, but this "relationship" is a hot mess that will only continue to get worse as time goes on.

I second that. Leave now before it gets much worse. If he had even an ounce of respect, love, or concern for you, he wouldn't hit you.