restart his town?

[ZebraQueen]

Just stop

He really love me and I love him
He just get like this sometimes for no reason

Just stop

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Now I'm crying more

 

[Miii]

If that's how you really feel, then why did you post this? Serious question, not me being mean.

And I don't know the first thing about you, but I can honestly say I care enough about you as a human being to not want you to be abused. You should really consider taking everyone's advice...

 

[Blueskyy]

Just stop

He really love me and I love him
He just get like this sometimes for no reason

Just stop

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Now I'm crying more

Nobody is doing anything but trying to help you (at least the last few posts). Why tell us to stop? If you say someone hits you, I'm not just gonna post "grow up" to you...I'm going to tell you what you need to hear. Put the game down and leave this guy.

 

[ZebraQueen]

Because I just feel like talking about it but I don't have friends
So that why I post it here but all the advice I don't want to hear
I don't want to break up with him
Idk about him but I don't think so
I just wanted to get more positive thoughts

 

[Belle of Pripyat]

Just stop

He really love me and I love him
He just get like this sometimes for no reason

Just stop

Then why did you post this? Do you really expect us to sympathize with an abusive man? He has anger problems and he needs help. He hit you in the face! Is that love? Next time he might break your nose or your arm. Maybe one day he'll kill you. Normal people don't get angry like that "for no reason." If you didn't want to hear our opinions, you shouldn't have started this thread. Of course people get angry when they hear crap like this!

 

[ZebraQueen]

No I'm not leaving him
He is very charming but today he just cross the line
But still I'm not

 

[Crash]

i mean this is the kindest way possible, but there really isn't a positive thing to say about this. you've told us he hit you; that's bad news and that's a huge red flag that you need to get out of this relationship ASAP or it'll get much worse.​

Then why did you post this? Do you really expect us to sympathize with an abusive man? He has anger problems and he needs help. He hit you in the face! Is that love? Next time he might break your nose or your arm. Maybe one day he'll kill you. Normal people don't get angry like that "for no reason." If you didn't want to hear our opinions, you shouldn't have started this thread. Of course people get angry when they hear crap like this!

belle summed it up perfectly tbh if you don't listen to anything else listen to that​

 

[Blueskyy]

Then why did you post this? Do you really expect us to sympathize with an abusive man? He has anger problems and he needs help. He hit you in the face! Is that love? Next time he might break your nose or your arm. Maybe one day he'll kill you. Normal people don't get angry like that "for no reason." If you didn't want to hear our opinions, you shouldn't have started this thread. Of course people get angry when they hear crap like this!

Yeah sorry. I've traded with you and you were very nice, so if you post someone hits you...I'm not going to say "oh it's ok just do what he tells you so he doesn't get angry". We are telling you what you know what you SHOULD do, but what you feel like you can't do.

 

[smileorange]

I'm reading this thread and hearing about your situation, and I'm really concerned about you. I'm sorry that you're upset, and really think you need to think about whether your relationship is making you happy. It doesn't sound like it. Just don't delete his town because that's petty, but I can understand why you want to.

 

[lucitine]

You may love him, but a crappy relationship with someone who yells at you and does things to your property without asking is NOT worth the time. You need to consider whether or not you want to spend the REST of your life feeling like you do RIGHT NOW. He's not going to magically stop and be nicer to you. Its very unlikely it'll change. I get that 3 years is a long time. But 3 years and breaking up now is better than 4 more years of this and then breaking up. If the only reason you're staying in this relationship is because you love him, its not worth it. Love is important, but its not all of it. You're 20. You have PLENTY of time to heal your wounds and still find someone who will love and respect you.

If you chose to break up, you need to take some time for yourself. No more relationships for a while. He is too immature and you responded back to him with immaturity.

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Okay. Just read this.

He. Hit. You

He will hit you again. and Again. And again. And EVERYTIME he does, he will be charming to try to win you back. This is called abuse.

You need to get out.

 

[ZebraQueen]

He just got very tired on how I do some stuff and also because I'm the mature one in our relationship but weak in body
And today I just cross the line that he did that

 

[lucitine]

Stop making excuses for him.
You did NOTHING to deserve getting hit. Even if you crossed a line, you didn't deserve it.

A HEALTHY* relationship means communication when someones done something wrong. Not physical violence.

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One of the websites I browse on often mentions this website. Please have a look at it.

http://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/why-do-people-stay/

 

[ZebraQueen]

Who I'm going to find in the is world
I get treated like trash
my parents force me to be almost like a slave
And got no friends I'm mostly alone and stuck reading or playing
Or baking
And he is very sweet he even got me a rose today of my favorite color before everything happened

 

[Belle of Pripyat]

He just got very tired on how I do some stuff and also because I'm the mature one in our relationship but weak in body
And today I just cross the line that he did that

Right. It's your fault that you made him mad and he assaulted you. Sure. Keep telling yourself that. Violence only escalates over time. No one can help you if you choose to be someone's punching bag, but don't expect us to tell you he's right.

Goodnight.

 

[Blueskyy]

Well I'm done posting on this thread. Hit me up if you ever need to talk. I hope you find strength to help yourself and be stronger than this.

 

[ZebraQueen]

And yeah I seen that page

 

[Rose]

Who I'm going to find in the is world
I get treated like trash
my parents force me to be almost like a slave
And got no friends I'm mostly alone and stuck reading or playing
Or baking
And he is very sweet he even got me a rose today of my favorite color before everything happened

He's not sweet. He's manipulative.

You need to learn the difference between those before you're stuck in a legitimately dangerous situation with this person. There has never been a suitable excuse for domestic violence and there never will be.

 

[lucitine]

Who I'm going to find in the is world
I get treated like trash
my parents force me to be almost like a slave
And got no friends I'm mostly alone and stuck reading or playing
Or baking
And he is very sweet he even got me a rose today of my favorite color before everything happened

He's not sweet. He was sweet to you because he hit you. He KNOWS its not okay to hit you. So what does he do? He makes you think hes this sweet, charming, perfect boyfriend.

The reality is that he is NOT the perfect boyfriend. He's charming because he NEEDS to be in order to keep/confuse you.

You say you have no friends. Did you have friends before you started dating your boyfriend? If so, did you lose them because he didnt like it when you spent time with them?

Look. Fact of the matter is we can spend all day telling you that you're in a bad relationship and that you need to leave, for your own safety. But look at it like this. A forum full of people you DONT KNOW cares more about your well being than your boyfriend does.

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Oh and you'll find someone. You wont find someone who will treat you better if you stay in an abusive relationship.

The only reason you don't think you will is because you're in a horrible relationship. You seem to have low self-confidence. Do you know how many people there are in this world? It is not possible that you will never find someone again.

 

[Azura]

You can say you're the mature one, and you are more mature then him, though someone with maturity would be able to recognize this problem and make attempts to fix the situation or better yet, end it. There's nothing that you could've possibly done to deserve being hit and you have no reason to make excuses for this guy, seriously. Though, it seems you don't want to take the helpful advice everyone here has been kind enough to give, so I don't see the reason for this thread and it feels incredibly out of place in this section anyways - even if it did start out related to New Leaf it has went to a completely different subject.

I've seen you on the forum and you are a very nice person, but no one can help you if you refuse to accept the help being offered and I'll be one to point out the obvious, you need help. Hitting people isn't "endearing" and showing how "sweet" , it's disgusting and puts all the possible red flags any could ever need, you just have to open your eyes and see them.

 

[okaimii]

You're finding every excuse to justify his actions and that's not healthy nor is it mature of you. He's not the only guy in the world believe it or not. I don't want to act like I know your relationship with the guy but it's definitely not love. Would you hit him or anyone you loved? Probably not, right?

Sorry that you're hurting and whatnot because I know what it's like to be in a bad relationship but you gotta get your head out of the gutter. There's no need to be desperate and stay with an abusive man. You'll find someone better in time.