Almost everybody (not all) have at at least one or a few members hating them. But I can see what you mean if the community despises a member. It's like if half the site hates a member who intentionally causes drama.
I can't guarantee if I do become a mod or not, but if I do become one, I won't a corrupt one. That means, even if someone expresses hatred towards me, I'm not going to ban them. It's only going to happen if they break the rules repeatedly and too soon.
But here's the real point. The reccomendations isn't a popularity contest. Even those with 0 to 2 reccomendations has a chance.