No, no I feel the same way about having June 9th on my ID card. I just restarted twenty minutes ago, still going through the maps, but I'm worried about not being able to get the entire Santa outfit for Toy Day. I had a good layout but I, too, time traveled to get half of my dream villager list which made me hate my town because now you're stuck with the same villagers forever unless you sacrifice one.
I'd say reset if you're unhappy. Just don't give in to a town that doesn't have what you're looking for (don't take a bad map for Jambette, don't take a good map without Jambette). I take a map that I think I can work with and end up hating it very soon.
What I'd say about your villagers is only keep a couple dream villagers.
I know there may be tons of villagers you'd like, (Lolly, Tia, Ankha and Stitches come to mind for me), but having villagers
that are like rivals to you may add some more incentive to the game.
I have a couple dream villagers in my town, (Merengue, Zucker and Apple) and hopefully I'll get Flurry and Hamphrey soon, but that'll be it. I'd like a town where some villagers are free to move out and travel the world, but some I'd love to keep
and continue being great friends with them.
Also, I reset in October, and I had a real problem with resetting. I found a town layout that was OK.
I've grown to love it.
also because merengue was a starter
I really wanted my ID card date to be on June 14th, but that would've been too much trouble for me. I also don't TT.
The ID card isn't a big feature in this game, so I wouldn't worry about that.
Just my opinion and advice.
Good luck on resetting!