What's Bothering You?

[Weiss Schnee]

Cleaning a whole *** house because the boys can't be bothered to do ANYTHING!

I'm just so mad that I cooked dinner for a weeks worth of food, (meal prep) but not one of them touched the things I used to cook. Not horrible in itself, but one of them starts mouthing off to me that I fill up the sink and never do anything.

Excuse me?

I wash the *** **** clothes, sweep, cook you food, make sure the living room and kitchen look spotless REGULARLY. What next? You wanna complain to me your room is messy?

Just..... UGH!!!

 

[Ananas Dragon]

Cleaning a whole *** house because the boys can't be bothered to do ANYTHING!

I'm just so mad that I cooked dinner for a weeks worth of food, (meal prep) but not one of them touched the things I used to cook. Not horrible in itself, but one of them starts mouthing off to me that I fill up the sink and never do anything.

Excuse me?

I wash the *** **** clothes, sweep, cook you food, make sure the living room and kitchen look spotless REGULARLY. What next? You wanna complain to me your room is messy?

Just..... UGH!!!

Reading this made me feel horrible for you : (

I hope it gets better :c

 

[Xara]

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[Reginald Fairfield]

People are outraged at a Golden Girls episode. They are wearing face masks, it isn't blackface.

 

[BungoTheElf]

I ALWAYS GET LOCKED OUT OF MY BANK ACCOUNT

 

[Mairmalade]

am i invisible or something i- like how do i get overlooked and ignored so frequently. i must actually be a ghost :/

Ah, that feeling is definitely yuck. What has made you feel that way recently?

I wanted to say that I recognize and appreciate your friendliness and the time you take to respond to others. p.s.: you have a cute ghost in your signature

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Work has been kicking my butt lately. I take maybe one break each month and there’s still always something to complain about. I have also recently observed a lot of unethical practices that are starting to make me uncomfortable and angry. Cannot mention specifics due to confidentiality but it’s making me consider why I’m here. Worried about finding and securing another opportunity in my area currently though.

 

[Reginald Fairfield]

am i invisible or something i- like how do i get overlooked and ignored so frequently. i must actually be a ghost :/

Your avatar and sig are cute.

 

[Weiss Schnee]

am i invisible or something i- like how do i get overlooked and ignored so frequently. i must actually be a ghost :/

Not a ghost~ I see you.

 

[SmoochsPLH]

I love my bro a lot, but 95% of the time he is such an ***. Not gonna go into specifics.

 

[Trent the Paladin]

Been feeling a lot like an imposter lately.

 

[Xara]

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[Weiss Schnee]

it’s silly but it sometimes it feels like i’m just sort of existing - i don’t think anything in particular triggered this but sometimes i’ll try to engage in conversations or make friends and my attempts get ignored and it’s silly but it still kind of hurts a bit. but i suppose that’s the life of being overly sensitive >_<




you’re both lovely, thank you

No sweetie that's completely understandable.

If it's any consolation ever since I've joined TBT I've noticed how polite and engaging you are to people. It made me open up a bit more because I see people like you making a difference to the day to day lives of a ton of users. I even tried to emulate your shop because I think you're so well organized and efficient.

You're one of the users I see the most. So try not to feel so overlooked, sometimes you're a role model and don't even know it!~

 

[Xara]

No sweetie that's completely understandable.

If it's any consolation ever since I've joined TBT I've noticed how polite and engaging you are to people. It made me open up a bit more because I see people like you making a difference to the day to day lives of a ton of users. I even tried to emulate your shop because I think you're so well organized and efficient.

You're one of the users I see the most. So try not to feel so overlooked, sometimes you're a role model and don't even know it!~

this means more to me than i know how to express - thank you so much

 

[_Rainy_]

am i invisible or something i- like how do i get overlooked and ignored so frequently. i must actually be a ghost :/

So many people come to my Island that they tend to blend together. When you came to craft for me my roommate and I were both squeeing over your Elmo shirt. I still remember it and so does she.

 

[Xara]

So many people come to my Island that they tend to blend together. When you came to craft for me my roommate and I were both squeeing over your Elmo shirt. I still remember it and so does she.

aha this makes me feel a bit better, thank you

 

[spawnpoint]

am i invisible or something i- like how do i get overlooked and ignored so frequently. i must actually be a ghost :/

Same. I think I'm just too quiet

 

[Kuroh]

Lost my phone for quite a long time while out shopping because it slid out of my pocket, I thought it was gone forever(but found it eventually) very stressful time...

 

[Mary]

am i invisible or something i- like how do i get overlooked and ignored so frequently. i must actually be a ghost :/

this is a mood. I'm super quiet and sensitive as well, and it's a tough combo. You reach out to people, which takes what feels like a herculean effort, and sometimes they just don't respond. That hurts a lot, especially if you're extra sensitive to perceived rejection (which I definitely am). It's super hard to want to try again after stuff like that happens, at least for me.

I try to remind myself that it's not really about me, and that they probably didn't even notice they upset me- unfortunately, a lot of people in this world are not great listeners, so I'll have to repeat myself or say it a little louder. A lot of times it doesn't feel worth it to me to put that effort in, but sometimes it's important stuff, so I'm more willing to raise my voice.

ps. i notice you and your resident rep with that iconic outfit! you're not invisible

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Same. I think I'm just too quiet

There's definitely value in talking less and listening more - I hate that society paints being quiet as a bad thing! keep doing you

 

[spawnpoint]

this is a mood. I'm super quiet and sensitive as well, and it's a tough combo. You reach out to people, which takes what feels like a herculean effort, and sometimes they just don't respond. That hurts a lot, especially if you're extra sensitive to perceived rejection (which I definitely am). It's super hard to want to try again after stuff like that happens, at least for me.

I try to remind myself that it's not really about me, and that they probably didn't even notice they upset me- unfortunately, a lot of people in this world are not great listeners, so I'll have to repeat myself or say it a little louder. A lot of times it doesn't feel worth it to me to put that effort in, but sometimes it's important stuff, so I'm more willing to raise my voice.

ps. i notice you and your resident rep with that iconic outfit! you're not invisible

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There's definitely value in talking less and listening more - I hate that society paints being quiet as a bad thing! keep doing you

the thing is im not very good at listening either

 

[Mary]

the thing is im not very good at listening either

the quiet thing still stands - don't feel like you have to change your style to suit others' expectations. I was told I was "too quiet" all the time growing up. When i was in my first leadership-type role (RA in a hectic, large dorm), I thought I had to be loud to get my point across, and become an extrovert or whatever, but that didn't end up being the truth. My residents responded the most when I was the most genuine - which, for me, meant quiet, calm, and steady rather than super loud and outgoing. You don't have to be loud, you just have to be you, as cheesy and dumb as I'm sure that sounds.