What’s something that really bothers you?

Also people who misinterpret you on purpose and turn the situation for the bad rather than just idk laughing when they should if u get what I mean :||
 
I hate when people try to justify being rude. I also don?t like when people try to seek approval from everybody. Not everybody is going to like you and I honestly learned that the hard way.
 
Well lots of things bother me, hm, but what do I REALLY hate?

At work I have had several customers come up to me telling me how to treat my acne. I've never posted a face reveal on here or tumblr, but believe me when I say me acne is BAD. And it used to be ALOT worse. Customer have come up to me telling me to eat less sugar, rub carrots/eat carrots, rub, boil and eat aloe, one customer gave me a card for a freakin cosmetic brand, and an employee gave me a card for a dermatologist. Another employee had the nerve to pull me aside from my work and begin with 'you there's Neutrogena in the pharmacy aisle?'

*RANT WARNING*
First of all, food has little to NO effect on acne, eating or not eating a food doesn't help nor hinder. If it were as easy as that, I wouldn't have this ugly mug I do now.
Second, who are you to tell an adult how to take care of herself? Until they've lived a life and a day in my place, they don't know what they're talkin about.
Thirdly, my acne is genetic. Yes, it is a trait that can be passed down from parent to child. So there really is no fighting my acne. It's in my genes, it's not a teenager phase thing.
And last but not least, I have been dealing with this for almost a full decade (10 yrs). I think by now I know what works and what doesnt.
 
people acting like they know everything about mental health issues, especially other people's illnesses, because they have experienced some sort of mental health issue. or people who say "if they were actually mentally ill they would do x!! ****ing fakers" or something along those lines.
"im SO ocd lol" isn't the same as someone having mild ocd or stereotypical symptoms of it.

also, there are a bunch of mentally ill people who are absolutely terrible, but that doesn't mean they aren't mentally ill. a person's individual behaviour doesn't represent everyone with a disorder but you can't say they arent sctually sick because theyre *******s and you dont want to associate with them

I understand your viewpoint on that subject. For example: a lot of people say they have anxiety at my university, but if they did they wouldn't even be there at the moment like it's nothing. I have anxiety attacks which actually prevent me from showing up or even leaving my home. It doesn't even come from panicking about something. It can be triggered by thinking too much about something that I don't like (such as hot and humid weather).

since when is anxiety only having panic or anxiety attacks that make you unable to leave your house. believe it or not some people have either mild cases of anxiety, different types of anxiety or are managing their disorder well enough to be in school.
 
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people acting like they know everything about mental health issues, especially other people's illnesses, because they have experienced some sort of mental health issue. or people who say "if they were actually mentally ill they would do x!! ****ing fakers" or something along those lines.
"im SO ocd lol" isn't the same as someone having mild ocd or stereotypical symptoms of it.

also, there are a bunch of mentally ill people who are absolutely terrible, but that doesn't mean they aren't mentally ill. a person's individual behaviour doesn't represent everyone with a disorder but you can't say they arent sctually sick because theyre *******s and you dont want to associate with them



since when is anxiety only having panic or anxiety attacks that make you unable to leave your house. believe it or not some people have either mild cases of anxiety, different types of anxiety or are managing their disorder well enough to be in school.

Yes thank you. Also a lot of time people are acting a role that helps them manage their eg. Asperger or anxiety attacks while they are at work, school etc. and when they get home they might suffer as much.

js.
 
Well lots of things bother me, hm, but what do I REALLY hate?

At work I have had several customers come up to me telling me how to treat my acne. I've never posted a face reveal on here or tumblr, but believe me when I say me acne is BAD. And it used to be ALOT worse. Customer have come up to me telling me to eat less sugar, rub carrots/eat carrots, rub, boil and eat aloe, one customer gave me a card for a freakin cosmetic brand, and an employee gave me a card for a dermatologist. Another employee had the nerve to pull me aside from my work and begin with 'you there's Neutrogena in the pharmacy aisle?'

*RANT WARNING*
First of all, food has little to NO effect on acne, eating or not eating a food doesn't help nor hinder. If it were as easy as that, I wouldn't have this ugly mug I do now.
Second, who are you to tell an adult how to take care of herself? Until they've lived a life and a day in my place, they don't know what they're talkin about.
Thirdly, my acne is genetic. Yes, it is a trait that can be passed down from parent to child. So there really is no fighting my acne. It's in my genes, it's not a teenager phase thing.
And last but not least, I have been dealing with this for almost a full decade (10 yrs). I think by now I know what works and what doesnt.

YES. Big yes to this!! I also have been dealing (or, rather not dealing with lol) with acne for a good 10 years too, basically from 10 years old. I don't think my acne is bad, but it's definitely noticeable. I had a similar experience where I went to work with a bit of a breakout and my co-worker asked me if I had been eating a lot of chocolate or sweets. She's usually a nice person, so I was just so shocked that I didn't know how to reply.

I'm like it's genetic, I literally cannot do anything about it. I've been on courses of medication to help it and this is the best I can get. It also doesn't help that I'm overweight because people automatically think oh she must eat **** tonnes of chocolate. Once again, lmao no, it's (partially) genetic!!
 
Oh my Frickin god someone relates.^^^^^^ I also have had acne since I was 10 and I've tried using a dermatologist prescribed medicane. It did absolutely nothing for me.

Mine isn't as bad as it used to be. I used to call myself a bulldog cause I would have acne around my mouth and face, which made my skin realllly red. It was so bad, that I used to get like, swells?, or just swollen skin I guess, all up my jawbone to the sides of my hairline. I still have the pic. It's manageable but not fully gone, you can still see it, it's just not as terrible as it was. *tempted to post a pic of just how bad it was*

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"im SO ocd lol" isn't the same as someone having mild ocd or stereotypical symptoms of it.

since when is anxiety only having panic or anxiety attacks that make you unable to leave your house. believe it or not some people have either mild cases of anxiety, different types of anxiety or are managing their disorder well enough to be in school.

I can relate to this, because I have OCD, but it's no where near the level ported on TV, like I have to do things 100 million times. Mine is more so the fact that I have a routine for everythin, everythin has a way, and I follow that schedule. Mine is mild and I got it from my mom, who also has OCD but on a mild level. I can leave my room a mess which doesn't bother me, I don't need to lock doors a thousand times and unlock them just to make sure I locked them the first time, I don't need to even have my stuff arranged in a certain order.

I dont talk about it, cause people will automatically think what they see on TV, the worse of the extreme. If I told them I have mild OCD they'd probably think that I dont.
 
Well ATM for me people who hate on something yet when you ask for a rebuttal they don't give you a reason. Like if ya gonna say "I don't think this is good/this is gonna happen" and not have a reason as to why you just look ****ing stupid.

I also don't like people who whisper when I try to ask them what they want at work. I'd rather be yelled at than attempt to try and understand you.
 
Anti-vaxxers. I cannot stand the ideologies they hold dear and promote.
 
Anti-vaxxers. I cannot stand the ideologies they hold dear and promote.

Yeah I hate them. Also it's not being a hippie wanting to spread dangerous diseases everywhere just to be "natural". Go back and read your history books please.

And yeah with that I flippin' hate modern so-self claimed "hippie-tumblrinas" who think Coachella is a Woodstock, anti-vaxxers, no poo, trendy vegans etc. god knows what **** is in their thoughts. Like yeah sure use baking powder on your hair but it's gonna make it even more dry, although it can be good for bleaching.

Sure go spread dangerous diseases and be "trendy"... very political and anti-war, pro-love lol :i
 
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sometimes I feel that I deserve more love than I'm actually getting.
 
Um, the struggles of me being an actual recovering narcissist with sociopathic tendencies, which is obviously not something to be proud of. It's hard because it's not like I was born that way; how I internalized various traumas led to it, but it still makes me feel ashamed, even if I've gotten better with therapy.
 
The fact someone stole from my sister and her bf's savings! >:|
 
Honestly there is a lot of stuff that bothers me which is probably why I like cranky villagers. I'll just list a few though.
-People who are rude/mean to others,and take their anger out on others.
-Yelling especially if it from a stranger.
-I also hate when people judge me because of social anxiety. They think I'm rude or snobby because I don't talk to anyone really. And family members who don't understand it will try to force me to talk when I really just like being quiet and don't want to talk. Just giving me a hard time in general. Stuff like that.
-I also don't like when people don't respect other peoples' things or opinions or privacy
-Also don't like when people don't care about anyone but themselves.
-When people judge for something you like such as anime or Pokemon for example.
Those are the main ones but still have more.I am a positive person I swear. I just got a lot of things that bother me.
 
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Quite honestly, out of all things, idiocy and inconsideration.
 
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