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Would you ever get married?

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  • Yes

    Votes: 82 67.8%
  • No

    Votes: 23 19.0%
  • Other

    Votes: 16 13.2%

  • Total voters
    121
Meh. I have nothing inherently against getting married, but I don't really see the point. Weddings are stupidly expensive and I don't enjoy attending them, so I won't enjoy having my own. If I were to get married I would probably just elope at the courthouse. However, since 50% of marriages end in divorce (and divorce is stupidly complicated and expensive), I think I would be fine with being in a committed relationship, but never getting married.

Or being a crazy old cat lady. That seems to be what I am working toward right now and it works for me! ^o^
 
Eh, not quite sure really on my thoughts on marriage atm :eek: I think I'm leaning more to the "not wanting to get married" side more though.
 
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well yea if i ever find a guy that i think is 100% perfect for me, and i'd be perfectly fine living with him for the rest of my life
 
yeah!! i'd probably just want to get married at town hall or something though, not big on fancy ceremonies
 
I've just never seen the importance of it. I guess it can protect you financially if you have kids and a house together. But I wouldn't ever have joint bank accounts or share deeds to a house. I'm a very lone person and I don't really believe in marriage...just because of how I've seen it go wrong so many times. Even couples who were together years, they get married and things just change and they're divorced or split up a year later. Just have a very pessimistic view on it all
 
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i'm a strong "maybe".. i'm not too keen on the idea of marriage itself, but it'd have to be someone i really really like, and don't see us splitting any time soon.
 
i only say yes because i guess i dont have any religion attached to it, it's just a status to say that i am with this person by law. also if i find the right person to stay with forever then like marriage wouldnt change anything anyway, it would just change legal stuff.
 
I chose other. I would like to have someone to live with/spend the rest of my life with, but I'd prefer it to be platonic (or a non-sexual romance I guess). If I end up with someone like that and they want to get married, that's perfectly fine, but if not that's fine too.
 
Back when I was a kid, yes. I thought getting married is all fun and games. But now, especially that I've seen a lot of single parents and broken families, I don't even think I would ever want to get married. I hate commitment and getting kids anyway and I'd rather raise a cat when I grow old.
 
I used to not want to ever get married, because as a kid, I was surrounded by adults that never seemed to like being together, and none of their marriages ever lasted. But back in May, I celebrated my first anniversary. :') So, yeah, I would, and I did.
 
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