VanitasFan26
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I don’t really care, honestly. I think there’s a lot of division happening now and we just need to come together. There are so many things now that you’re forced to pick a side and it becomes your identity. You should be judged based on your character and how you treat others. Not based on your political stances or identity.
#notallmen etc etc.Don't misunderstand I am not like one of those guys who ignores what woman goes through. I get what Sexual harassment is and I understand it good. The main issue I have is when Woman try to think every guy in the world as if they are all the same.
Don't misunderstand I am not like one of those guys who ignores what woman goes through. I get what Sexual harassment is and I understand it good. The main issue I have is when Woman try to think every guy in the world as if they are all the same.
obviously it's "not all men" but the problem is that we don't know which men, so it might as well be.
I had a recent argument with my friend was a guy who said that "Oh girls are too sensitive they always whine about everything" and I said something like "Look dude, woman go through a lot of issues and there is a good reason why don't trust a lot of guys, but I just don't like when other guys try to make others look bad" The point I am trying to say is that I understand why woman need help and I get that, but the one thing I do not appreciate is woman trying to think all guys in the world are just as bad. I was bullied in High school for being a guy and every woman assumed that I was a stalker just because I looked at them.
Its no wonder why men recently have been avoiding woman because they are in fear of being labeled as "Stalkers". This is such a complicated and sensitive issue when you're trying to understand both sides and the funny thing is both genders understand sexual harassment, but the problem is that the #MeToo Movement created a "Grey Area" where woman feel the need to go after every men who wronged them even it means "Little things" Like a guy shaking hands with a woman or just having a simple conversation.
I respect all woman equally, I get what they go through and why they don't trust all men in general which is valid and understandable, but again what I don't agree with is when Woman try to go after every single guy "even the nice ones who have nothing against woman" and feel need to call them "Stalkers" just because they want to feel more empowered. It is not okay and it creates this social norm that is happening more often.
The skittle analogy above is exactly why this behaviour exists. Assuming all men are creeps and out to get you isn't right, I agree, but it's happened so many times to me and lots of others that it's the body's natural reaction and self defense now. It's sad it has to be that way, but I think the creeps making it like this is where your frustrations should be toward.(sigh) I not trying to sound like ungrateful or feel like I am attacking woman. I am just saying that I don't like it when woman attack guys as like they feel the need to do it to protect themselves. I mean is it that hard to even get along with woman and you try to treat the with respect, but the moment you like get closer to them they start to get sensitive? Some girl at school framed me as like I was the one who was talking woman when it was another guy who lied to them saying that I was the one being the stalker.
How can you say that I understanding woman is "part of the problem"? Let me clear this up because apparently some are taking what I say out of context and using it against me. I respect all woman equally, I get what they go through and why they don't trust all men in general which is valid and understandable, but again what I don't agree with is when Woman try to go after every single guy "even the nice ones who have nothing against woman" and feel need to call them "Stalkers" just because they want to feel more empowered. It is not okay and it creates this social norm that is happening more often.