VanitasFan26

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  • I feel like sometimes people take designing way too seriously with their islands which is one of the reasons I've seen people get so mad and frustrated with the game. I mostly blame Social Media for trying to compare who has the better island. The reality is there is no such thing as a "perfect island" your island can be just as good as long as "you" are happy with it. You don't need to let people tell you otherwise. I know from experience what it feels like to feel "pressured" to have a great looking island, but at the end of the day, just make what stands out to you.
    I really don't get how people have good trades going well for them, while I have to put with people who are unresponsive and having to deal with 1 star reviews. I had to deal with this last year and I tried to give it a chance this year, but its actually worse than I thought. I don't get how people can be "Online" and not respond. I get they have lives, but its one thing to make an offer and then suddenly disappear with no response. If there was a trading feature added to New Horizons that was more user friendly this would not be so complicated!
    Just restarted my 2nd island and its named "Bridgeton" (based off of Wario's hometown) Here is the dream if you want to check it out. Its still in development, just as an idea of how I plan my layout while designing the island. DA-7103-4863-9909
    UGH....this pandemic has been going for 18 whole months and NOTHING has even improved. I blame the people who didn't get vaccinated soon enough. Its their fault for making this situation drag on a lot longer than it needed to be.
    I just feel like I am someone who just make things to be a big deal but then I realized that I let my own anger and sadness consume me. It gets me in a sour mood and makes me avoid talking to others just so I would not make them feel uncomfortable. I know people often ask me things like "Whats wrong" then the moment I describe the incident I just get a "whatever you're just full of yourself" response. I really cannot express my problems so well and I just feel stuck.....
    I told myself I would never trade again, but I went back on Nookazon and to my shock all the trades have been going well, but then eventually it started to go downhill. 3 days ago I won an Auction for 40 Mystery Gifts and the seller didn't get back to me for like 2 days. I already filed a report and to this day I am still waiting because they keep saying "be patient" (god I hate that phrase). Now I remember why I left that site, people are too unresponsive, mods take weeks to get to your report, and of course dealing with people who try to scam you. I say this because I've been scammed last year and I will always remain very cautious around others who trade with me.
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    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    I know people told me about trading on here, but to be quite honest with you and this may sound silly, but I don't know how to trade on here. Even though I don't like Nookazon I can at least appreciate it for it handling how it is. It will give you notifications when someone accepted your offer and you can enter the dodo code for the seller or buyer to come to your island or theirs. Idk how to that on this website. I mean its just threads and most times I just see old threads if someone was selling, but then I look at the date and realize "okay well this trade is already done" so its confusing to me to know how to even trade on this site.
    Croconaw
    Croconaw
    I understand! I haven’t actually traded on this particular forum either. I think the New Horizons trading section has slowed down since the initial release of the game. I don’t think too many people are actively playing, and most have probably found the items they’re looking for. I usually just stick to Facebook groups for trades. Those are pretty straightforward.
    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    I am not surprised given how stale the game has been since we really haven't gotten a major update since the Sanrio one. Who knows at this point. People can speculate the same "Brewster" topic over and over again, but its not going to do enough to save the game.
    (sigh) I sometimes ask myself "Why do I even bother.....?" and it puts me in really sour mood.....
    I was passing by and decided to say hi. ^-^
    How are you?
    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    Its alright I know the feeling. As an Introvert/Autistic like myself I am very shy around people too and I have trust issues given that I've been with too many bad people. People used to think I was boring, because I was so quiet and don't talk so much. Its nice to know I am not the only one that feels this way.
    Aminata
    Aminata
    Oh feel sorry for that, bad people always ruin good people's life :'(
    You are not alone, i'm here with you.
    We are a team now!
    you can count on me whenever you need to talk about something.
    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    Yeah and if you feel you want someone to talk to I'm always here too.
    Being Introvert can be lonely at times, but it doesn't bother me whatsoever. When I have a few people who I can talk too that understands me better thats good also.
    People need to understand that just because your island is "not perfect" doesn't mean its bad. Stop comparing yourself to others. You do your island the way you want. It doesn't have to be perfect and it doesn't need to have a theme. You do whatever you think is best for you. I've seen some people trying to shame others because they think their islands are too "barren" or they should just use more items. Its never a good thing to say that. This game was not designed for competition.
    DA-0241-2851-2864 thats my main island if anyone wants to visit. I am not a perfect person and I am not going to act like this is the "best island" but I made it based on my personal tastes that fits me as a person.
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    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    well glad to hear I am not the only who used to feel that way last year.
    S.J.
    S.J.
    I’ve been meaning to upload some pictures of my trip to Destiny and I’ve finally done it!

    Something that I really liked about visiting your island was that it was easy to move around and explore! Sometimes I find that people cram so much stuff in the path that it makes it difficult to move in some places, but you managed to have a lot of decorations without blocking the paths! 😊

    Your fruit tree area is my favourite spot on the island! It‘s really pretty, especially at night.


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    Raymond was pleased to see me. 😋

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    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    Well I'm glad you enjoyed
    your time on destiny. I don't really have a theme going for this island I just made whatever stood out to me and yes I like my pathways very open and easy to follow I really don't like when people put so much narrow pass on their Island which makes it feel cluttered.

    Thank you for visiting
    • Dino
    Reactions: S.J.
    Hey, I'm glad you're OK! I also suffer from depression as well, but if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm always here. Hopefully people aren't toxic to you this time
    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    I can only just be cautious and becareful of what I say. Thats how it is with me these days.
    Hello! I didn’t realize you were back. How goes it?
    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    Well.....its....not well, but I am finally a lot better after last time. I mean its so weird and yet I feel great. I don't want to jinx myself, but stuff has improved or given have life has been these days.
    Croconaw
    Croconaw
    I’m glad you’re feeling a bit better! I hope you stick around for a bit. My experience wasn’t the best at the beginning of my time on this site. I was really immature… but things have improved for me.
    VanitasFan26
    VanitasFan26
    well thats good to hear, I don't know about me though, but I am going to give it a chance. I am keeping expectations very low at this point since I learned setting it too much would lead to disappointment. I've been guilty of that so many times and its something I have to work on.
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