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daringred_
✧ stupid lesbian ✧
i'm literally a femme lesbian and it doesn't offend me in the slightest that people headcanon all the uchis as lesbians just because they look "tomboyish" because that's their headcanon and their business and tomboy/butch lesbians literally exist, i-
also if a cishet girl was offended at people assuming they're a lesbian, that's their problem since there's nothing inherently wrong with being lesbian and it's a quick, harmless correction to make. not to mention that that example is literally ignoring... the whole crux of the problem? that getting offended when someone thinks you're a lesbian based on appearance (which is perfectly valid since lesbians often identify each other based on physical characteristics) implies there's something wrong/offensive about being a lesbian, and that "you're a lesbian" can be used as an insult in the first place as though, again, there's something wrong with being a lesbian. that's the real issue, not that a lot of lesbians are butch/tomboys and will often associate that look with their sexuality.
i'm going to stop replying to these sorts of comments now because, frankly, it's a mess. leave people and their harmless headcanons alone. they're under no obligation to explain themselves to you, and you have no right to ask them to. if this was a thread about cishet villagers and/or their relationships, none of these comments would've been posted, and i hate it that this repeatedly happens every time there's an LGBT+ topic and that i/we repeatedly have to defend/explain ourselves.
Ok. Are either of these two people either of you who keep defending you thinking one or two characters has a sexual preference? Nope. Ok then exclude yourself from the list of people we are talking about. Because we weren't even referring to you or what you said. I listed her as an example because she was the first imagine posted before my first comment. Now that thats cleared up continue to be righteous.
And as a side note. There is nothing offensive about being thought of as gay or being hit on by someone who is. Just so my opinion on that is clear. I don't need to identify with anything because I identify with myself and in all honesty think most humans generally suck in some way or another so am perfectly fine not whatever the heck headcanoning my villagers is. Or shipping them via ups or FedEx. I think its a sad world if a person feels like they need to identify with a fictional character because its not as easy to identify with people in the real world. But let's be honest. The world is pretty sad since we are trying to do the right thing and not be privileged folk and we are still being harassed about it. Sue me. We tried to defend a population instead of scrutinizing them.
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And as a side note. There is nothing offensive about being thought of as gay or being hit on by someone who is. Just so my opinion on that is clear. I don't need to identify with anything because I identify with myself and in all honesty think most humans generally suck in some way or another so am perfectly fine not whatever the heck headcanoning my villagers is. Or shipping them via ups or FedEx. I think its a sad world if a person feels like they need to identify with a fictional character because its not as easy to identify with people in the real world. But let's be honest. The world is pretty sad since we are trying to do the right thing and not be privileged folk and we are still being harassed about it. Sue me. We tried to defend a population instead of scrutinizing them.
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I'm not arguing. Pointing out flaws in logic. The saying is never judge a book by its cover and is preached by many groups as being the wrong thing but the same groups do it and then claim its ok because they are part of whatever group that is. Can you not see the hypocrisy in that? Or do you choose to turn a blind eye to it? You related to your character the way you said you did is absolutely understandable and fine and dandy. But those who count an entire group something is like saying all people of one group are one thing just because of one singular trait. I'm sure you can fill in the blanks to fit any number of examples this idea applies to. No one of any group wants to be judged based on their hair, clothing, skin color what have you and thats that. You are getting upset because a group of people wanted to stand up for you. Thats nuts.
My point, and I can only speak for myself here, is that no one, anywhere, should ever be judging by appearance. Ya know unless they are in a ski mask pointing a gun. But I think you understand what I am getting at if you would take a second to reread the thread.
Oh to add to that. Practice what you preach is another saying that applies quite well here.
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My point, and I can only speak for myself here, is that no one, anywhere, should ever be judging by appearance. Ya know unless they are in a ski mask pointing a gun. But I think you understand what I am getting at if you would take a second to reread the thread.
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Oh to add to that. Practice what you preach is another saying that applies quite well here.
daringred_
✧ stupid lesbian ✧
oh my god, i completely forgot about lucky and biskit! lazy boyfriends who also live next to each other on my island. really solidified them as a couple after this cute conversation i saw where they said they were going to go travelling across the ocean to eat lots of tropical fruit and maybe see some sharks uwu. also henry is super gay. he rocks the green sunglasses i gave him 24/7, and his little green handbag. he's the villager who most frequently references my "gay" answers and ends up saying stuff like "i can't wait to tell everyone i was into being gay before it was cool" all the time. originally i was going to swap him out for marshal but honestly he's such a gay icon i might just keep him.
daringred_
✧ stupid lesbian ✧
i've lowkey shipped dotty and pompom ever since they were in my WW town together. if it were possible to have a second island, i would reunite them in a heartbeat. (i literally bought their amiibo cards solely for that purpose but never got round to it on my NL towns.) they would totally be supportive aspiring-popstar girlfriends who sing karaoke together way later than they should, and constantly tease one another whenever they mess up a dance move.
hi, sorry if what i've said has caused offence in anyway. it wasn't intentional and i would like to clarify i am just drawing light-hearted comparisons from my own cultural experiences within the lbgt community. they are just playing around with fiction and internet subcultures, and i am not implying that barack obama wrote a memoir about diana the snooty deer.
Just a reminder to keep this thread on topic (which villagers you would perceive to be gay/LGBTQ+) and to be respectful of others' opinions on this topic, thanks!
