I would post to ask sometimes or spontaneous just make a decision my self. I would try to think if I really like the opinions from other or go with my own decision it’s our island after all!
Sometimes I ask for opinions from others just to try and give myself a little push but if my heart isn’t fully with the decision that said others have made then I just go with whatever I feel is the best thing.
I always do what I feel like doing, but when I'm unsure I do sometimes ask for input. It's not that I'm letting others push the buttons for me, it's just asking what other people would do so I can take their arguments in my consideration. So I don't really care what someone else would do, but why they would make that decision...
'Villager X or Y' is a question that doesn't really have reasons. That one is mostly just personal.