I am here for you

[pawpatrolbab]

To vent to, to talk to, to feel safe around.
I've created this thread for people to just talk, judgmental free, be able to let it all out and feel safe. Talk about whatever has been bothering you, try and get it off your chest. Or you can reply to other people and offer comfort.
I feel this thread is well needed, please be kind to each other.
(I would say how I'm feeling but it feels like I'm just whining)

 

[Bellrich]

my best friend is depressed because she thinks she is causing all of her moms devorces but i dont know how to help her. All of her skype statuses are now quotes about life being meaningless. HELP ME ;-;

 

[Watchingthetreetops]

I lost my best friend. There's nothing I can do. And it's okay. It really is. I mean...I'll miss him. He understood me, and was the first person in my life to really listen, and understand my feelings. I've learned, since him, to let other people in. To trust other people. And most of all....to rely and trust myself. But I still miss him. I probably always will. The worst part is, he won't talk to me for really petty reasons. He didn't get a table back after I moved out. When I think about it now, I realize how Petty the whole situation was. I just...wish that he could get over himself.

 

[Bellrich]

I lost my best friend. There's nothing I can do. And it's okay. It really is. I mean...I'll miss him. He understood me, and was the first person in my life to really listen, and understand my feelings. I've learned, since him, to let other people in. To trust other people. And most of all....to rely and trust myself. But I still miss him. I probably always will. The worst part is, he won't talk to me for really petty reasons. He didn't get a table back after I moved out. When I think about it now, I realize how Petty the whole situation was. I just...wish that he could get over himself.

I hope you can become friends again with him somehow..

 

[ZaAlPa2006]

my best friend is depressed because she thinks she is causing all of her moms devorces but i dont know how to help her. All of her skype statuses are now quotes about life being meaningless. HELP ME ;-;

Just tell her that it is not her fault and tell her that she has meaning. Tell her that life's meaning is to love and sometimes fight and bad things happen. Life is not meant to be perfect. Also, tell her that you will always be there for her and you will always try your best to help her or anyone else when they need it. I hope this helps a lot. My mom is a counselor and she has helped me help my friends in situations like this. So once again I hope this helps a lot. Just vm or pm me for help if needed.

- - - Post Merge - - -

I lost my best friend. There's nothing I can do. And it's okay. It really is. I mean...I'll miss him. He understood me, and was the first person in my life to really listen, and understand my feelings. I've learned, since him, to let other people in. To trust other people. And most of all....to rely and trust myself. But I still miss him. I probably always will. The worst part is, he won't talk to me for really petty reasons. He didn't get a table back after I moved out. When I think about it now, I realize how Petty the whole situation was. I just...wish that he could get over himself.

One day you will meet him again. Also, keep passing on the things that he taught you so you and I make the world a better place one person at a time.

 

[Xara]

I think I've lost a friend.

She was someone who I considered my best friend, but the entire relationship was toxic. She didn't care about me as much as I cared about her, which hurt constantly. And when things got bad, she had absolutely no problem with tossing me aside, and picking me up again when it was convenient for her. She's hurt me in so many ways, and I know she's not willing to change...which means I have to let her go.

Over a week went by without us talking, and she didn't even try to talk to me once. Shows how much she cares, and how much talking to me doesn't even matter to her. I've gone crazy over her this past week, and she doesn't even know the extent of it. Talking to her now is tense and uncomfortable, and she doesn't feel like my friend anymore...now, she just feels like a stranger.

 

[Antonio]

I feel sad and idk why. It could be because of my back or me replying to this thread. It's probably my back. It hurts

 

[Watchingthetreetops]

I hope you can become friends again with him somehow..

Honestly, I believe it'll happen. At least, I hope it will. And if it doesn't, it's okay. I don't regret anything that happened. It's just...the worst part about it all is that despite being friends for well over five years, the main reason he won't talk to me now is that I won't give back this piece of furniture his father let me have. Last year, I got laid off and lost my apartment and damned near everything. To think that I trusted this person...that I felt like they understood me...someone that I trusted with all of who I am just won't be my friend because of something like that...

it's okay. I'm sad that things turned out this way...I just realized, though, that he couldn't find some reason to villainize me, so he chose something so mundane...he knows me. And somewhere in his heart, he must know how silly it is to be upset over this. But he might never realize that. I just wish he would

 

[Albuns]

I want to tell my dad about the computer issue I'm having but I'm afraid 1 of 3 things will happens...:
1) He'll attempt to fix it, fail and get angry, then yell at me for being incompetent.
2)Fail to fix it, go to a friend for help, friend fails to fix it, spends a lot of money to get it fixed by someone else
3)End up buying a new PC altogether even though we've only had this one for a year...

It makes me scared sick knowing my parent is going to yell at me for something I didn't even do.

 

[pawpatrolbab]

my best friend is depressed because she thinks she is causing all of her moms devorces but i dont know how to help her. All of her skype statuses are now quotes about life being meaningless. HELP ME ;-;

I honestly have no personal experience with divorce, all I can say really is talk to her and be there for her. There isn't too much context for me to go off of so I'm not sure of what else to say, sorry </3

- - - Post Merge - - -

I lost my best friend. There's nothing I can do. And it's okay. It really is. I mean...I'll miss him. He understood me, and was the first person in my life to really listen, and understand my feelings. I've learned, since him, to let other people in. To trust other people. And most of all....to rely and trust myself. But I still miss him. I probably always will. The worst part is, he won't talk to me for really petty reasons. He didn't get a table back after I moved out. When I think about it now, I realize how Petty the whole situation was. I just...wish that he could get over himself.

How I see things is we have many people in our life, and they all have their time to come and go, and it may have been his time to go. I know the reasons may seem petty to you, but I'm sure he has his own problems and things going on to believe that. Everyone has the right to choose who they'd talk to, and we all need to take care of ourselves. My response probably isn't very helpful because I personally believe this person isn't acting selfish or anything, but I don't really have much context or details. Sorry aaah

- - - Post Merge - - -

I think I've lost a friend.

She was someone who I considered my best friend, but the entire relationship was toxic. She didn't care about me as much as I cared about her, which hurt constantly. And when things got bad, she had absolutely no problem with tossing me aside, and picking me up again when it was convenient for her. She's hurt me in so many ways, and I know she's not willing to change...which means I have to let her go.

Over a week went by without us talking, and she didn't even try to talk to me once. Shows how much she cares, and how much talking to me doesn't even matter to her. I've gone crazy over her this past week, and she doesn't even know the extent of it. Talking to her now is tense and uncomfortable, and she doesn't feel like my friend anymore...now, she just feels like a stranger.

Oh gosh I feel this so much...I suffer from an illness called BPD which makes me prioritize certain people over others. I'm dealing with the exact same thing from my ex-partner. You have no idea how much I can relate and sympathize with this situation honestly... just knowing that she treated you poorly is the first step and I'm so proud of you for recognizing that. Try making new friends, or always occupying yourself, eventually the pain will go away and you'll find another person. If you'd ever like to talk I'm here, feel free to ask for any contact info from me

 

[Nightmares]

I want to tell my dad about the computer issue I'm having but I'm afraid 1 of 3 things will happens...:
1) He'll attempt to fix it, fail and get angry, then yell at me for being incompetent.
2)Fail to fix it, go to a friend for help, friend fails to fix it, spends a lot of money to get it fixed by someone else
3)End up buying a new PC altogether even though we've only had this one for a year...

It makes me scared sick knowing my parent is going to yell at me for something I didn't even do.

Oh my gosh, yeah, I'm literally frightened to do or say anything around my dad most of the time, incase he gets angry ;___;

Good luck with your computer issue eekkk Dx

 

[Acruoxil]

We have a What's Bothering You thread for that my friend

http://www.belltreeforums.com/showthread.php?277982-What-s-Bothering-You

 

[Chris]

Please use the What's Bothering You thread for things like this, thank you.