FTFY
Don't have any I can think of and haven't been diagnosed with any. When I was a lot younger I had some anger management issues, but surprisingly these days I'm a lot more calm and quiet.
Nice, editing my reply like that. Quite funny.
FTFY
Don't have any I can think of and haven't been diagnosed with any. When I was a lot younger I had some anger management issues, but surprisingly these days I'm a lot more calm and quiet.
Nice, editing my reply like that. Quite funny.
*snorts*
I'm far from a professional on the subject but I suggest you see one, since they will help you more than anybody could. My advice? Find a way to drive yourself to eat something, because eventually you will have to. Do something you enjoy, or watch something that inspires you, or really anything that you can think of that will help you eat. But seeking professional help is your best bet.This may not be the place to talk about this, but I really need some help at the moment. I've gone into relapse with my eating disorder. I can't bring myself to eat. I've had about 300 calories in the past 3 days. I don't feel like I can talk to my family because they just get annoyed about it. I really don't know what to do... I feel like I'm on the verge passing out all the time, but I just can't bring myself to eat...
I'm far from a professional on the subject but I suggest you see one, since they will help you more than anybody could. My advice? Find a way to drive yourself to eat something, because eventually you will have to. Do something you enjoy, or watch something that inspires you, or really anything that you can think of that will help you eat. But seeking professional help is your best bet.
Okay? Did you really have to post that then?Finally, we agree on something. I was about to post, but you said it quicker.
Also Kerys, if your family is inconsiderate about your disorder, talk to your friends and others who are close to you. If they are truly your friends they'll understand, and will be there for you and help you start more regular eating habits. Even if you don't realize or believe it, there will always be someone who cares, even if you don't know them.This may not be the place to talk about this, but I really need some help at the moment. I've gone into relapse with my eating disorder. I can't bring myself to eat. I've had about 300 calories in the past 3 days. I don't feel like I can talk to my family because they just get annoyed about it. I really don't know what to do... I feel like I'm on the verge passing out all the time, but I just can't bring myself to eat...
Okay? Did you really have to post that then?
Also Kerys, if your family is inconsiderate about your disorder, talk to your friends and others who are close to you. If they are truly your friends they'll understand, and will be there for you and help you start more regular eating habits. There will always be someone who cares, even if you don't even know them.
This may not be the place to talk about this, but I really need some help at the moment. I've gone into relapse with my eating disorder. I can't bring myself to eat. I've had about 300 calories in the past 3 days. I don't feel like I can talk to my family because they just get annoyed about it. I really don't know what to do... I feel like I'm on the verge passing out all the time, but I just can't bring myself to eat...
Thank you, it really means a lot.Okay? Did you really have to post that then?
Also Kerys, if your family is inconsiderate about your disorder, talk to your friends and others who are close to you. If they are truly your friends they'll understand, and will be there for you and help you start more regular eating habits. Even if you don't realize or believe it, there will always be someone who cares, even if you don't know them.
And that's completely fine by me, just don't post in threads like it's your blog (just like that post) unless you have something that relates/contributes to the thread.Just trying to be kind, jeez.
I`m sorry to hear you going through this. I`m far from experienced in this area, but I did spend a lot of time with people who used to suffer from eating disorders and I`ve seen how hard it is to deal with. Thats also my advice really. Seek contact with other people dealing with this. Things like support groups, maybe online contact via mail, etc. It can really help talking to someone who has went through the same thing.
Don`t give up on your parents or other family to soon. They might understand or sympathize more then you think. Their annoyance might just as easily be pure concern over your wellbeing. Its important to keep communication open with those who care for you. When I think back to how people at my workplace dealt with it, they also had to force themselves to eat, but did so by making it a less big transition. As in still eating, but not as much as you would normally, or maybe something more tasty. They would compensate it by eating slightly more often a day. Find a way that works for you. Invite family or a friend and eat out for example if that helps for you.
I saw people go through hell because they couldnt get themselves to eat. Its hard to understand for an outsider like me, but do know that I hope you find a way to bounce back. Sometimes a person has to break through their own barriers to keep up the fight. Just don`t forget that even when you have to do it yourself in the end, there are always possibilities to find support. Since I dont know where you live, i can`t recommend a place to go, but in Holland I would know the perfect place for you.Im sure these places also can be found abroad.
I believe nobody has a mental illness or disorder until they are diagnosed by a professional. Self-diagnosing yourself is one of the most ignorant (and in some cases attention-seeking) things you can do.
I completely agree with you. What I meant by self-diagnosing is believing 100% that you have x disorder, and you go around telling people and yourself that you have it even though you haven't been to a professional for a proper diagnosis. There's nothing wrong with researching and thinking you have a mental disorder, it usually speeds up the process of getting a professional diagnosis, which in turn starts the process of treating and controlling it sooner. But taking it to the next level and believing that you have it and making others believe you have it too is unacceptable to me unless you've been diagnosed by a professional. Of course some disorders and illnesses are much easier to spot and diagnose (such as depression), but that doesn't exclude those who think they have one of the more obvious ones to not seek a professional diagnosis.I honestly don't think self-diagnosing is that bad. There are situations for why people can't see a professional. Besides, self-diagnosing can be the first step to getting help. If I never thought I had depression I would've never gone to see a doctor. I know there are some people who are too poor/busy to see a professional. My friend worries she has borderline personality disorder but she can't get a professional diagnosis because her mother will treat her terribly if she found out she was mentally ill. I think as long as they're doing it respectfully and they have researched it then it's fine. I think some self diagnosing autistics don't want autism to be on the public record or something y'know, since they don't want that to stop them from getting a job. (Ex: The employer sees they have autism and doesn't want to hire them) or something like that. I'm fine with people self-diagnosing depression for themselves if they truly feel they have it. I mean if they're doing it to be trendy and cool, then yes I would be really annoyed. but idk. I think there's a difference between people who self-diagnose because they think mental illness is cool and people who truly believe they have something.
Thank you so much. I've tried to talk to other people with EDs but I feel like one of us always seems to relapse and trigger the other and I don't want to be a trigger to anyone else. I'd feel so guilty. I live in England... It's all a bit **** over here.
I might give it a little more time and if I can't sort it out myself, then talk to my family again.. I can't deal with all the **** I'll get from them...
Thank you again. It really does mean a lot.
I honestly don't think self-diagnosing is that bad. There are situations for why people can't see a professional. Besides, self-diagnosing can be the first step to getting help. If I never thought I had depression I would've never gone to see a doctor. I know there are some people who are too poor/busy to see a professional. My friend worries she has borderline personality disorder but she can't get a professional diagnosis because her mother will treat her terribly if she found out she was mentally ill. I think as long as they're doing it respectfully and they have researched it then it's fine. I think some self diagnosing autistics don't want autism to be on the public record or something y'know, since they don't want that to stop them from getting a job. (Ex: The employer sees they have autism and doesn't want to hire them) or something like that. I'm fine with people self-diagnosing depression for themselves if they truly feel they have it. I mean if they're doing it to be trendy and cool, then yes I would be really annoyed. but idk. I think there's a difference between people who self-diagnose because they think mental illness is cool and people who truly believe they have something.