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Need some advice
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N a t
In the name of the Moon, Indeedaroo!
Your signature makes me wonder if you're serious about this or not (it looks very much like some sort of joke or pun)? Either way, I came to wish you luck on your endeavors. It's possible that it will be very expensive, but hopefully some of the users on here who have actually had changes made can help you out with some advice and what not. And perhaps you have family that will support you both emotionally and financially. 
ramen.jpg
Senior Member
Your signature makes me wonder if you're serious about this or not (it looks very much like some sort of joke or pun)? Either way, I came to wish you luck on your endeavors. It's possible that it will be very expensive, but hopefully some of the users on here who have actually had changes made can help you out with some advice and what not. And perhaps you have family that will support you both emotionally and financially.
No I am really serious I wanted this for a long time...
N a t
In the name of the Moon, Indeedaroo!
Sorry for the misunderstanding, like I said, your signature just seemed silly to me. But I'm taking the situation seriously of course. I hope you get the help you seek
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Oh, I didn't even think about this. I forgot, there is a difference between gender and sex, right? I guess if ramen wants a gender change, then that technically is free! I was thinking about a sex change which requires surgery, I believe.
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I tried to offer good vibes and wishes, but all I did was confuse myself and sound like a butt D:
N a t
In the name of the Moon, Indeedaroo!
This is probably a better idea. But I think it's okay to ask the people here too. I think being able to actually talk to someone who has gone through the process would do you some good. Someone to relate to that could make you feel more comfortable, and they could give you advice. If I needed help with something, I'd like to speak to someone relatable or experienced. Peace of mind is a blessing.
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Plus, most of the people are are generally friendly and happy, and I'm sure they'd love to help you!
Ok, I'm not saying that these sort of threads aren't welcome here, because anything's welcome here. I'm just saying that you'll likely find a stronger response to what you're asking on a forum that is specifically built on helping people with the problem you have. Here are some forums you could check out:
http://emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/
http://www.psychforums.com/gender-identity-disorder/
https://sgforum.org.uk/
http://www.tgboards.com/
Of course, we'd love to help you out! Though, for serious questions like this (regarding what essentially is a life-decision) you should seek advice from people that have been through that experience and are more qualified to give you the information that you're seeking. However, if you feel as though the advice we'd offer you here is enough then happy days
Corrie
✨ Got Ring?
Definitely don't forget that there is a huge difference between sex and gender. Sex is to do with what you have "down there" but gender can be whatever you wish at any time. So for your gender, you can change it freely but to change your sex, that costs money since you are physically changing a body part or two.
EpicGamer12
Senior Member
Gender is just a set of stereotypes that people like to conform to. It's just a social construct and there is no reason to be concerned with it. Just be yourself and enjoy life. If you are wondering about having surgery to change your sexual organs, well that is a lot of money and I know just about nothing about it. Good luck.
