In the future I'd advise against flippantly using a real psychiatric abnormality 'in a light-hearted way.' It's a genuine mental disorder, not something to toss around regarding someone exhibiting what you find to be outlandish behavior. Some would say that kind of comment is ableist, because it does insult those who truly find themselves suffering with such disabilities.I'm sorry it hit a nerve, i was using the word in a light-hearted way - seriously no one was annoyed at you, it's just opinions on a book after all
Not trying to start anything, but I'm pointing out why people can be and sometimes are bothered over these kind of remarks.