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I googled How to Get Away With Murder to look up the tv show; I hope no cops search my computer anytime soon.
 
I really miss you! You were the only person in my life who's ever made me feel wanted and I'm beginning to feel very sad that you had to move away.
 
I woke up late today, I woke up at 10:30am....


I hate when my dad rearranges the furniture, because it always ends up looking horrible then before. Seriously, just leave this job to my mom.
 
i CAN'T FIND THAT THREAD HERE WHERE PEOP- crap

I can't find that thread where people c/p whatever is on their c/p. Also, I have no idea how much swearing is ok here cos I see many people swear and it's A ok but I'm pretty sure when I swore my post was removed.
 
Saylor said:
Why do people have to fall for people who don't treat them well :c
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Psychologically speaking, it's often because of people feeling insecure about themselves and thinking they deserve the bad treatment. They fell in love and see it as a good thing that their love is reciprocated - the bad treatment that comes afterwards is seen by them as a sort of punishment, meaning that they don't see the person they're in a relationship doing anything wrong by treating them badly, but rather think that they did something wrong and it's their own fault.

It's destructive for sure but they would rather live in a relationship that they remember made them happy when it started than lose the person they care so much for. Even when you tell them it's not their fault that they're being mistreated, they'll still think that they're the ones that need to improve, not their significant other.
 
tomatoes should be banned in food when they are just cut down fresh into stuff. ketchup and soup i can eat but the veggie in general blech
 
Reindeer said:
Psychologically speaking, it's often because of people feeling insecure about themselves and thinking they deserve the bad treatment. They fell in love and see it as a good thing that their love is reciprocated - the bad treatment that comes afterwards is seen by them as a sort of punishment, meaning that they don't see the person they're in a relationship doing anything wrong by treating them badly, but rather think that they did something wrong and it's their own fault.

It's destructive for sure but they would rather live in a relationship that they remember made them happy when it started than lose the person they care so much for. Even when you tell them it's not their fault that they're being mistreated, they'll still think that they're the ones that need to improve, not their significant other.
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Oh whoa, I wasn't actually expecting anyone to answer that. I appreciate your response very much, it makes a lot of sense. Thank you. :)
 
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