rude people on this forum, anyone else having a problem?

[earthquake]

Whoa whoa whoa! Just stop it. If someone is trying to be helpful, but has been rude before, please don't get this snappy. Murray is quite a helpful member on this site. He has a point.

k but murray was rude? if that's justified then you shouldnt be saying this at all. case closed.

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You're information not being good enough has nothing to do with you not being here long enough, it's because you didn't provide a source. Feel free to PM me if you want to continue this discussion further.

did OP have to provide a link? no?

why -- because you can look it up yourself to confirm? yep. you can do that for anything.
i really do think this is at least a little bit more than just a little rude.

 

[tokkio]

hmmm yeah i guess it wasn't implied that the information wasn't good enough just because you haven't been here long enough though.....

buuuut im gonna stay away from this......

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

And I would have had you addressed me in a better way.

Do not comment or even spam my post anymore. Because this was about in general how people have treated others on here, and you are turning this into the altercation I've had with you.

I'm not going to PM you as to be fair, I don't like the person you are. You can not talk to people that way, spam a few threads and drag it out, and then think you can all of a sudden discuss this.

My thread is about how people are rude, and some of what I've seen. If you continue to make this about you and drag this fight onto here I will report it. It is nonsense at this point, I'm not going to let someone talk down to me. You could have easily just said "hey would you mind posting where you've read it". I'm sure at least one person on here can say your choice of words wasn't the best, and that's what caused my reaction. So leave it alone now.

 

[earthquake]

also this thread wasnt an attack on you, i feel like you're trying to make it personal. kiti was trying to see if anyone had a similar experience and suddenly, more attacking. its not about you, kiti was asked to give examples and she did, thats all.

 

[Murray]

k but murray was rude? if that's justified then you shouldnt be saying this at all. case closed.

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did OP have to provide a link? no?

why -- because you can look it up yourself to confirm? yep. you can do that for anything.
i really do think this is at least a little bit more than just a little rude.

Rudeness does not justify rudeness. If someone interpreted what I said as rude/deeply offensive, then they are free to report the post or PM me if they want.

And on you're second comment, you don't really understand the context of the situation if you think it can be looked up.

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

k but murray was rude? if that's justified then you shouldnt be saying this at all. case closed.

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did OP have to provide a link? no?

why -- because you can look it up yourself to confirm? yep. you can do that for anything.
i really do think this is at least a little bit more than just a little rude.

Thank you. The whole point of me even posting quotes was to see if it was rude or not, it wasn't for it to be dragged out on here.

I can understand other people not wanting to get involved in it, but your posts on this have made me feel a lot better

 

[earthquake]

Rudeness does not justify rudeness. If someone interpreted what I said as rude/deeply offensive, then they are free to report the post or PM me if they want.

And on you're second comment, you don't really understand the context of the situation if you think it can be looked up.

if you dont believe something, simply put in a few keywords, and if within the first page nothing comes up, then you'll know they were wrong.

googling isn't hard. its 2015. everything can be looked up.

i dont think rudeness justifies rudeness, but if you rub someone the wrong way, you shouldn't get annoyed if they get snappy with you.

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

Rudeness does not justify rudeness. If someone interpreted what I said as rude/deeply offensive, then they are free to report the post or PM me if they want.

And on you're second comment, you don't really understand the context of the situation if you think it can be looked up.

But it's not to interpret, it's right there. If you were having a conversation in person and said that exact thing to someone, they would have a reaction. This post wasn't about you, and as I've said, you are just spamming it now. I was asked to provide quotes to what I thought was rude, so people could tell me if that's how it came across. You are turning this about you and into a fight, and it's just spam now. No one is going to want to discuss on this now, because no one wants to be involved in a fight that should have been over with.

 

[earthquake]

Thank you. The whole point of me even posting quotes was to see if it was rude or not, it wasn't for it to be dragged out on here.

I can understand other people not wanting to get involved in it, but your posts on this have made me feel a lot better

i really do see what youre talking about though. this isnt the only animal crossing community im a part of, but people on here are definitely the rudest. i dont really want to be exclusive to reddit or tumblr or any other site, because this site has more users, but its really discouraging the way some people treat others.

 

[-Apples-]

Thank you. The whole point of me even posting quotes was to see if it was rude or not, it wasn't for it to be dragged out on here.

I can understand other people not wanting to get involved in it, but your posts on this have made me feel a lot better

Yes. Just letting you know, people will always be rude no matter what. However, some posts are more susceptible to rudeness than others. Take for instance, opinions. People have the right to voice their opinions, but some would retaliate because they don't agree with them. And there are some who have a tendency to pick fights no matter what. Of course, there are extreme cases.

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

So someone tell me, Murray posting "Ok you have some problems and need to calm down before you reply, but I'm going to try and explain something to you." isn't adding fuel to the fire.

No I don't have problems. But again, you say things like that what do you expect. One thing that is really annoying me, since when did it become ok for people to say other people have problems? Or is that going to be justified with them being a helpful user.

 

[earthquake]

Like what everyone said, rudeness is natural, but still unacceptable.

Whoa whoa whoa! Just stop it. If someone is trying to be helpful, but has been rude before, please don't get this snappy. Murray is quite a helpful member on this site. He has a point.

ok.

seems like the story changes when you're friends with someone?

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

I can easily admit me snapping back doesn't make anything better. but this post wasn't about this fight, and it doesn't change the fact you can't say someone has problems or talk down and think it isn't going to cause a reaction.

To be fair I stand by what I've said, if a user has been here longer and more people know them, their actions will be defended most the time. But if this user was a new comer, I think more people would agree saying someone has problems for one, is going to get a bad response. And, is rude.

 

[Javocado]

Try smoking weed!!

 

[Skyfall]

I actually agree that there is quite a bit of rudeness on here, at times, from a minority of people. Those people think they can type what they want without their nice "filter" on because it's all anonymous. And when you take offense or point it out, often the response is, don't be too sensitive. I've noticed this kind of behavior ever since I joined.

Having said all that, just like in real life, just choose to not interact with those people. There are a lot more nicer people then rude ones on here, and I've made a few really good friends. Don't let the few bad apples run you off of this site. It's worthwhile to seek out the nice people and have good experiences.

 

[earthquake]

Try smoking weed!!

YES.

jk jk but rly. if yall are gonna act high. might as well get high.

 

[kiti_in_wonderland]

I'm just ignoring anything else having to do with this fight. And if there's anyone who can relate or something they can pm me, as even on here (except for the obvious fight) there seems to be a lot of nice people

 

[badcrumbs]

YES.

jk jk but rly. if yall are gonna act high. might as well get high.

This would never have started if they were acting high.

But really that is fantastic advice. Jav to the rescue as usual.

 

[hydrophonic]

1.- If you make a contribution with useful information you need to give a source. No one is going to be there to search for something you said just to check if it was right or wrong. You are the interested in giving the information.
2.- To be honest, what this thread looks like (to me) is just a a generalisation to draw attention to those three cases in which you were involved. You keep saying ''oh, i made this thread to ask something, so please stop drawing attention to yourself...'' while you remained discussing for three entire pages.

The point of this post isn't hurting you or making you feel bad. If this point sounded rude to you or anyone i'm not sorry (at all). It's your fault if you get offended by a text written in a neutral style.

Btw, wanted to remark something: not using emoticons or lot of ascii/alt signs doesn't make you a rude ogre.

 

[DutchableMC]

Yeah, have noticed a couple of rude people(not to me); Most of them being in the "General Discussion" so I tend to avoid that part of this website. I myself stick to the main Animal Crossing and haven't seen any rude people there(albeit I haven't been on this site for that long.)

We will unfortunately always have rotten eggs in the community. Can only avoid them :/