Celestefey
どうでもいい
Kiti, I do 100% agree with you, but... Well, I don't really know what's going on between you and Murray, but if someone on here has been rude or spiteful to you, the best thing to do (in my opinion) would be for you to respond to them in a calm manner but without saying anything that could potentially be offensive, yet show that you do not tolerate it. I know it's so quick and easy to want to respond back in a harsh way to someone who's being rude to you, but sometimes it's just not worth it. :\ The best thing to do is to just set the good example, because if we keep being nasty to one another, well, it's only further perpetuating this behaviour.
I, too, have noticed some rude members on this forum. Especially in the debate threads in Brewster's Cafe! A lot of people leave such horrible and nasty insults, personally attacking people who may have a slight difference in opinion to them. It's really disgusting, it makes me upset having to read it. I shouldn't have to experience that, and NOBODY should have to experience that behaviour. We shouldn't have to just "accept it" because "yeah people are rude so we should get used to it". We shouldn't ever tolerate rude behaviour. Maybe if people realised that it wasn't going to be tolerated, people would perhaps think before they spoke or wrote out a message. The best thing to do is report that message, and block them so you can avoid seeing their posts. That makes things much easier that way.
I, too, have noticed some rude members on this forum. Especially in the debate threads in Brewster's Cafe! A lot of people leave such horrible and nasty insults, personally attacking people who may have a slight difference in opinion to them. It's really disgusting, it makes me upset having to read it. I shouldn't have to experience that, and NOBODY should have to experience that behaviour. We shouldn't have to just "accept it" because "yeah people are rude so we should get used to it". We shouldn't ever tolerate rude behaviour. Maybe if people realised that it wasn't going to be tolerated, people would perhaps think before they spoke or wrote out a message. The best thing to do is report that message, and block them so you can avoid seeing their posts. That makes things much easier that way.