If you feel as if the game is pressuring you to play all day, every day, then perhaps it would be a good idea to take a break from it. Its purpose is not to make one feel like they need to play, but rather, to be an escape or just a bit of relaxation whenever one needs/wants it. Your conflict seems to stem from the fact that you want to do so much but don't have nearly enough time to do so. In this case, it'd be best for you to play the game whenever you can and keep it to where the game progresses daily as it was meant to. Time traveling can have overall poor effects on villagers, town health, visitors, etc. You know what they say: Patience is a virtue.