lunathenia
Senior Member
I can understand frustrations of waiting for people. I used to do many trades when I was new to animal crossing. I still do a few here and there. I just have to say that it is a game. Games should be able to be set aside. I myself have a lot that happens around my home. I have children, pets and a husband. My point really is that sometimes you can't quickly let the person know that you will be away from your computer. Real Life is not a game. I.E your dog decides to sneak off and explore around the new yard. Wanders out to the front next to a very busy highway. You cannot let the person know. You need to run and get your dog before they are hit by a car. I know that from personal experience :O Also you are on a site that has many different people with different time zones. People 3 hours behind you, 6 hours ahead or behind. Just try to give people a little bit of faith. If they don't follow through or leave you hanging then there are so many other helpful people on this site.
Well... this is a thread about pet peeves... not about trying to balance cons/pros of the site. What faith is there to have in the first place? And just because a few people are guilty of the patterns doesn't mean I'm going to stop playing ACNL or stop coming to this site... I think that's evident if you happened to have glanced at my wifi-rating and saw the amount of trades that have taken place. But yes, forums like TBT are really good in helping you progress in ACNL.
If it was an emergency then any explanation would do justice but most people that are guilty of situation #1 and/or #2 keep repeating the pattern so I avoid trades with them. Idk stats but I'm sure that the chances of emergencies happening to the same person during trading all the time is pretty slim. The fact that they no explanation is provided whatsoever and acting as if it's normal to keep the other person waiting without a word is what gets people agitated
Here I'll give you another emergency ish example, this is one that I'm guilty of. I passed out b/c I was up at like 3 am or 4 am so I avoid trading at night/dawn now. But I let the other person know when i woke up and apologized.
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And that is what everyone should do if they're a decent human, explain and apologize in case you kept them waiting and wasted their time.