My brother's friend. He is unavoidable because he is over my house every damn day. He claims he is "family" but he is not family to me. He sometimes says we're "friends" yet he annoys me every time we see each other but doesn't even personally invite me to any trips, birthday parties, trips, etc. Honestly I just want him out of my life at this point. :/
I have a friend who is very high effort to socialize with. I am an introvert and can't handle much of normal people, but she has ADHD and is a very complicated person to deal with. She was coddled by her parents and still is so she thinks she deserves everything for nothing and needs constant attention. She would invite herself over and just stay for days when I only invited her to hang out for the day of and stuff and it's not really like I could make an excuse for her to leave since at the time I wasn't doing anything. Thankfully now I have a job that helps me avoid her so that's nice, but if her mom comes in to gamble she'll sometimes bring my friend and she'll sit right near my desk where I can't escape and bug me for a few hours... while I'm at work. I'm too polite to say anything so I don't but I am just glad I don't have to spend too much time with her, I can handle a few hours of her company and do enjoy it but only in very small quantities.
I have before! I'm glad I dumped them all very smoothly. I don't have the time or energy for that lol.
edit: by "dumping them all very smoothly" i mean letting the friendship die on its own; they message, i reply -otherwise i won't message them at all lol
We aren't friends anymore, but there was this boy (will call him E) that was so annoying. He was a total drama queen and utter *****. E always spread rumours about me and everyone else. I eventually stopped being friends with E in the first year of secondary school, but then in the second year he became friends with my best friend and eventually I was the third wheel for two years.
There were also these mean *****y girls and there was this one new girl who they ditched (calling her Z), my so-called friends actually pitied her and they let her tag around with us. She was very clingy, very specific and really *****y too. We would skip lessons together, every time being her idea, then she threw me under the bus everytime.
After a huge fight and ****-show, I broke up with all of them.
I have a friend (calling her L) who I became friends with on a discord server my friend (calling him T and who ive been friends with for 2 years on the internets, he lives a few miles away but not close enough so i can actually meet him) invited me to. This girl goes to my friends school, and I try my best to ignore her whenever she tries to talk to me. She gets jealous over everything, like my friend (who im calling A) won a book review contest and won a copy of harry potter, but L wasnt having it. A literally mentioned it once to her and L shouted "dont ******* rub it in my face!!!" and also L is literally the definition of salt. Me, A and T are busy people and whenever L talks to us its when we are busy, and once the first time i ever said I am busy, she said "youre always bloody busy" and you know that feeling like you can feel like someones salty? this was it. A has blocked her, but she still has to see her at school. also once when we were making our DnD group she offered to be the DM, and a few weeks later when we said we were gonna play she refused to do it. so i said i would do it. A and T approached her in school and said to her that its not fair because now they have to make me do it and L turned around and said "who cares" like ouch that was rude and hurt me a little bit when i found out. I just hate her so much.
once i also had a 'friend' who was friends with someone who used to bully me constantly, but my friend asked me to borrow money everyday and never gave it back, she owes me about ?20 and an apology for bullying me as well.
There's this girl that I'm friends with only because my best friend is friends with her so we will all end up hanging out. But she is rude and will always make sure she's right next to/with my best friend and will shove me out of the way to make sure of that. Also she spreads rumors around about one of my other friends and I just find it so annoying.
I have a friend who I'm very close to, but he has been quite rude and disrespectful of me as of late. Will keep it vague here for privacy reasons, but I established boundaries (he gets really attached to people), because I was uncomfortable, and he actively defied it three times...I was so angry. I figured what we need is a break, so I haven't been talking to him. I'm not going to talk to someone who can't even respect my boundaries. :/
But because he gets so attached, I get worried about him. He's always talking to me about how he's so lonely and sad and etc., so then I feel as if I ought to be there for him constantly, which is kind of unhealthy. I'm not sure what to do about this situation currently. He's been sending me snapchats, and I've just been ignoring them.
Yeah there was this one 'friend' in art class that would not stop obsessing over Japan or anime. She tried pronouncing the names of artists with a Japanese accent (even though one of them was clearly captioned as Italian), drew self portraits in anime, kept changing the topic to anime, etc. She would also criticize other people's art behind their back and say how much better she is or what she would have done. The only reason she came up to me in class was because she liked my art. It's better to be on their good side rather than bad as a 'friend', but otherwise I don't associate with her.
I actually had to think about this one for a while, but I did have a "friend" who I tried to avoid. So, back in eigth grade, my circle of friends from show choir invited this girl (who I will call Mama June) to a small grade get together party. Mama June seemed like a nice and funny person at that point, and at the party, we decided to start a group chat that included her. After being in the group chat and being fine for a while, Mama June went around and started talking s*** about everyone and proceeded to blame it on us. She made fun of a girl with depression. She told people that they were worthless. It wasn't good. We slowly pushed her away from our friend group, but whenever she would see that we hung out without her, she would say stuff like "wow, I have such great friends" or "I'm so glad that you invited me to this." We stayed as "friends" up until sophomore year when she didn't make it back into the show choir and we haven't heard from Mama June ever since.
my annoying Ex... he called me every day 24/7 after school ended... thank god i have a new boyfriend i actually ENJOY talking to but i have to be with him when school starts because we both have autism and we need to "be taught social skills" so we're always in the same class
I guess my best friend? I mean she's pretty cool, but if we weren't forced together for a project I probably wouldn't have tried to get to know her in the first place.. mostly just because she just doesn't seem like the type of person I generally befriend since she's always pretty energetic, active, and childish and we don't really have much in common
