That one friend...

[piichinu]

i dont bcome friends w/ ppl i dont like cus im not fake xxxx

 

[visibleghost]

i have a friend from my last school who is okay and kinda nice but if you spend too much time with her you want to throw a table at her because she's really self centered, loves attention and drama and is really immature, she always has to have things her way. so idk i do avoid her sometimes because she can be like That, but i dont know if i would know that she could be so annoying if i had never been her friend so ????

 

[Gregriii]

yeah, I know this girl who is rich as ****, but isn't as pretty as her friends and so she's always complaining about how her life sucks, she's whinning all day and me and my best friend are kinda sick of her complaints. But like, we've been friends for 2 years now and we really enjoy each other's company, we really have fun times together, the only problem is she's always complaining and dramatizing EVERYTHING, like, she cried bc her grandmother that she hasn't seen in 10 years i think?? called her racist

I stopped talking to her twice, one last summer because she thought I called her ugly and another time back this february, when I got sick of her whinning and said to her "you suck", she spent like 1-2 weeks crying because of that. We ended up being friends again, tho. And yeah, insulting her was a dick move.

She's my friend and I enjoy her company sometimes, but I'm pretty sure if I hadn't known her I would NEVER try to befriend her



there's also this girl that we really have lots of things in common but she's in the "cheerleader" group (ffs they even have a shirt with their group name on it) and I don't have anything to say about her but I don't probably think we could have become friends if it wasn't because I had to sit next to her in maths

 

[Romaki]

No, I'm not "friends" with people I don't like. I rather be direct and honest.

 

[Tee-Tee]

When I was in school I had a 'friend' that really wasn't a friend? Like she was some one I would talk to but not really want to hang out with. She was annoying and really hot-headed, like she loves horse~ Got nothing wrong with peeps liking horses~ but that was all she talks about, and when you try to talk about some thing else she will get mad at you and just yell. I remember one day when we had art and all she drawn was horses, and the teacher would get mad at her, and people yelling or simply telling her not to do some thing would set her off, so she would get kicked out off every art period.
Because of how she was she used to get bullied a lot~ but to be honest she was the one that mostly starts *****~ so I would feel sorry for her, as I never really saw her with any friends, so if I saw her I would just talk to her for a couple of mins. But then she started to follow me and my mates around, which I didn't mind as first. But then she would just start *****ing at me for every thing I did, so I just tried to stay away from her.

 

[BrinaLouWho]

I used to but im horrible at being fake nice to people I hate so I end up avoiding the entire situation which isnt good.

 

[yukikotobuki]

Although it's sometimes unavoidable due to work and school, I try really hard not to let people I don't like believe that I do like them. Otherwise, I recently had to cut off two of my best friends that I had known for years because one of them became a lying psychopath and the other had a victim complex and blamed me for the arguments that she would start. Also she became really cold towards me when she got a new boyfriend. Kind of lame. But letting toxic people go is a big part of growing up, I suppose. If you ever come across people like this, even if you've known them since your childhood, you should probably try your best to siphon them out before they really hurt your feelings :/

 

[BambieTheMayor]

I'm that friend that gets avoided. I don't do anything wrong, I just panic when someone talks to me so everyone thinks I'm some weird/mentally unstable person. I consider my sister my best friend but she doesn't do anything that makes me want to avoid her.

 

[Mink777]

Fisher...

He felt like he was just a regualer friend until he started acting like he could do anything he wanted. Depressing, it really is.

 

[Loriii]

Either I would just stop talking entirely or be blunt and tell the person straight to their face if I don't want to be friends anymore.

 

[Irelia]

yep. I could name like 3-4 people that it applies to

 

[Marmoset]

Befriending your boss sounds tricky.

As for friends that you wouldn't have made otherwise, not really. Usually I separate activities (work, school, leisure) to make things easier. Those that I like I am more willing to hang out with during my leisure time.

 

[Lightspring]

My 'best friend'. I realized that she is only nice to me, and the rest she tries her best to annoy and act rude towards. She's very clingy towards me. Now, a lot of my peers avoid me or give me dirty looks all because I hang out with her.

 

[Tao]

If I try to avoid somebody and think that in any other circumstances I would do my best to avoid meeting them in the first place, I don't consider them a friend.