I don't exactly "get" what you mean. Are you just wondering if you're being too picky, or do you actually have a town and those are the things you want?
If you think you're being too picky, it's perfectly fine! I know many users that are, me being one of them. It's best if you try to eliminate some ideas if you have a really long list of things you want, but of what you have listed, it doesn't look like you're being too picky at all. Who doesn't want pretty much no ponds in town or lots of space for Public Works Projects? ^^
If you actually have a town and that's what you want, I recommend maybe showing us a layout. Or, as I've mentioned before, you can write down pros and cons and see if you want to reset. c:
oh, i meant i have no town, i'm resetting right now, and have been for 2 days, so i was wondering if i was being too picky. i don't know what happened to that part of my post xD
i'm glad there are others like me. when i started resetting i didn't think my list of requirements was unreasonable, but my game refuses to cooperate. i'm going to give it a rest for tonight and try again tomorrow.