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When there is rules made anywhere and sometimes you are so stuck with the mindset of "trying so hard not to break the rule" it makes it harder to express yourself when you're no longer around that area that has those rules.
 
I like regular, sunny, warm weather. I feel like this is an unpopular opinion. I know a lot of people love snow, rain, and even cloudy weather. Typically people hate or are neutral towards just plain sunny weather, clear, no wind. I kind of like it though. Wind can be annoying if there’s too much of it. I like the simplicity of clear weather. No clouds. Just sun and warmth.
 
I like regular, sunny, warm weather. I feel like this is an unpopular opinion. I know a lot of people love snow, rain, and even cloudy weather. Typically people hate or are neutral towards just plain sunny weather, clear, no wind. I kind of like it though. Wind can be annoying if there’s too much of it. I like the simplicity of clear weather. No clouds. Just sun and warmth.
Same here. As someone who has like summer and the rest of the year is one grey season mostly I definitely live for summer. Sure, when we have/had snow it was great but it's not so much and I can't really enjoy it so lol.
 
I really hated didn't like Into the Spider-Verse. I was listening to this podcast by the former Cracked team and they were talking about the movie, and I just got annoyed and bored. I'm still sore about what they did to my Spider-Man Noir... Such a confident and superb design dragged into the goofy and campy Nicolas Cage territory. What a waste of a character.
 
I don't like direct chat (Discord, Internet chatroom, basically platforms where you chat in real time). Chatting in the forums can already prove challenging for me because of my paranoia that either takes things out of context or misinterpret the intention of the writer (whether if he's joking or not). At least with forums, there's a brief period of pause before you hit that Post Reply button; Discord doesn't have that luxury since you could just hit 'Enter'. The chat moves faster, and misunderstandings happen faster too.

I'm just not the best at socializing with people online since you don't get to see the face of the person you're talking to. You don't know what the person is feeling when he's writing the comment, whether he's intentionally trying to hurt you or simply just joking.

I feel this so, so hard. I have a lot of friends, but I struggle with one-on-one communication because i'm super anxious of carrying the conversation. Whenever my friends respond in a less than clear manner, I get paranoid that i'm doing something wrong and I fear that they don't actually like me. I'm trying to get better at it, but sometimes lil' ol' introverted me needs a break and a few days to just ... relax, by myself. I miss the old days of forums, to be honest.
 
I feel this so, so hard. I have a lot of friends, but I struggle with one-on-one communication because i'm super anxious of carrying the conversation. Whenever my friends respond in a less than clear manner, I get paranoid that i'm doing something wrong and I fear that they don't actually like me. I'm trying to get better at it, but sometimes lil' ol' introverted me needs a break and a few days to just ... relax, by myself. I miss the old days of forums, to be honest.
The thing of it is, at least you feel like it's your fault and you are trying to get better. But I think for me, my ego always gets in the way and worsens the misinterpretation, making the situation uglier than it already is. I'm literally incapable of walking away, and I always have to have the last word if I felt someone offended me. It's a reflex in me built in me since primary school, when I had to defend myself from bullies. I'm still that child fending myself against the world, and I think I've reached that point in adulthood where it's just too late for me to change my attitude. I've tried my hand at therapy several times to no avail.

At least you have friends. I've chased everyone who mattered in my life away with my ego.
 
I dunno... seems like people are on their cell phones a lot. Like even while eating, or walking outside. Perhaps I'm not any better -- sometimes I'll be looking down at my phone whenever I'm eating or walking somewhere, but I'm fine without it and I don't do it that much. I feel like compared to other peers, I don't really use my phone that much.
 
I dunno... seems like people are on their cell phones a lot. Like even while eating, or walking outside. Perhaps I'm not any better -- sometimes I'll be looking down at my phone whenever I'm eating or walking somewhere, but I'm fine without it and I don't do it that much. I feel like compared to other peers, I don't really use my phone that much.
100% agree people spend too much time on their phones and not enough time enjoying real life nowadays
 
I dunno... seems like people are on their cell phones a lot. Like even while eating, or walking outside. Perhaps I'm not any better -- sometimes I'll be looking down at my phone whenever I'm eating or walking somewhere, but I'm fine without it and I don't do it that much. I feel like compared to other peers, I don't really use my phone that much.
100%.

My biggest pet peeve is when I see people walking around using their phone at the same time. The amount of near misses with road traffic that I’ve witnessed is astonishing. It’s even worse when they’ve got AirPods or headphones on as well.
 
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100%.

My biggest pet peeve is when I see people walking around using their phone at the same time whether. The amount of near misses with road traffic that I’ve witnessed is astonishing. It’s even worse when they’ve got AirPods or headphones on as well.

Driving + phone is a terrible idea

I'm always amazed when you go to a restaurant, see couples on a date... on their phones :unsure:
 
100%.

My biggest pet peeve is when I see people walking around using their phone at the same time whether. The amount of near misses with road traffic that I’ve witnessed is astonishing. It’s even worse when they’ve got AirPods or headphones on as well.
I have my AirPods in a lot to listen to music, but my phone always remains in my pocket if I’m walking. Especially if I am walking alone, it’s best to be cautious of your surroundings.
 
I have my AirPods in a lot to listen to music, but my phone always remains in my pocket if I’m walking. Especially if I am walking alone, it’s best to be cautious of your surroundings.
I’m the same, I make sure I have a playlist on so I keep the use of my phone at a bare minimum when walking. I also wait at pedestrian crossings until it changes to green even if there’s little to no traffic around. On the flip side there are also some drivers out there who treat the roads like a race track.
 
100% agree people spend too much time on their phones and not enough time enjoying real life nowadays
Yes and getting skewed views from it as well.

I mean sure I just use it sometimes to concentrate on listening to people's boring conversations and stuff but yeah those teens and older being glued to it 24/7 no.
 
Here's the thing about criticisms towards "diversity casting": It's not about you, your race, or even remotely about hating a certain group of minority at all. At least it's not in my case (I can't speak for the many self-entitled bigots out there).

Instead, it's about how diversity is now "trending." Your minority status is now profitable to bank on, and so many movie studios cast blacks and Chinese not because, or rather, not just because they want to include those people who deserve the spotlight (because god knows I would want to see more Chinese actors in Hollywood as well, since I'm literally one of them), but also because people pay good money for such diversity... and that kind of filmmaking ticks me off.

I'm someone who grew up on not just American popcorn movies, but also the more "artsy" ones that don't just regurgitate the same familiar family message. I remember some of my earliest films when I discovered the beauty of filmmaking in the 2000s included "American Beauty", "Magnolia", "Citizen Kane", "Casablanca", "Psycho", "Close Encounters of the Third Kind"; basically any renowned works by an auteur over the past century (I'm still trying, and failing, to get used to the older black and white films). And so, it's quite an understatement to say that I have a certain kind of respect for not just filmmaking itself, but innovative, and more importantly, original filmmaking that tries to say something new about life.

These "diversity castings," however, aren't about that... They're about money, plain and simple. My favorite heroines were Ellen Ripley and Sarah Connor, not because they're women, but because they're great characters. But nowadays, people celebrate movies because there's a woman as the main star. I think that's a bigger insult to feminism and equality than contributing towards those values. And see, it goes further back than our progressive era today. The token black character? That was there just to make the studios feel good about casting a black guy as if they're doing something special for the greater collective community (P.S. Hollywood: you're not). That was there just because "Oh, there's gonna be black people watching this too, so let's throw in a black guy." It's an insulting line of thinking not just in filmmaking, but also in our fight for equality. Also, it doesn't just affect black people as well. Imagine you're playing pretend with the schoolyard kids, and the other cool kids tell you to come over because they need an obligatory Asian kid... yeah. Not cool.

Now, to be perfectly clear, I'm not against the business of filmmaking. Making movies can be expensive, and even though many have shot great films for a couple of millions, it's a different industry nowadays and the amount of marketing required (thanks to competition from streaming services) means that it's harder than ever to make back your movie budget and make a profit. I'd also like to think that I've outgrown that phase of my life where I was some pretentious snob who thinks that money doesn't matter in the craft of filmmaking (it really does). So when I do frown upon a film that's made just for the sake of pandering to feminism or a certain minority group, it's not as if I'm raising torches and calling for a riot and it's more of me giving an annoyed groan stating, "You could do better."

Also, for what it's worth, I didn't bother to watch Shang-Chi because it has that same exact problem I'm stating. I'm Chinese, and Shang-Chi looks boring to me. It's the same deal with "Captain Marvel", because yay, we finally have a female-starring Marvel movie... it's just too bad the character's so unlikable. I mean, I enjoyed "Black Widow" a lot more because of the character, not because of gender differences. I liked "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" because of good writing, not because Buffy's biologically different than me. "Captain Marvel" the movie shouldn't be special just because the main character's a different gender - that's never a good reason for telling stories. It's that kind of biasness that got Hollywood executives casting Zorro as a white man instead of a Mexican for so many years because white people were more profitable. This biasness is a slippery slope and a double-edged sword.

So what are we talking about here? Is involving race or gender in a movie inherently bad? Of course not. A movie that tackles issues of race or gender, that's an entirely different thing because the plot itself is about race/gender. These movies were made to tell stories about these issues. In storytelling, character is king, and the story comes next, so if the movie is specifically focusing on a minority group in the plot, then that's a good thing because the intention here isn't to bank on said minority group, but to have an open discussion about them with the audience. "Captain Marvel" kinda tries to talk about feminism, I guess? Buuut in a really cringeworthy and backhanded insult kind of way towards men, so I didn't like it because of that... Feminism should be about equality, not superiority. There were far better shows and movies that tackled feminism in either a more subtle way or a more clever and sincere way.

And the same goes towards sexuality as well, "Moonlight" is a great example of discussing black homosexuality in all its joy and sadness. That's a movie worth celebrating about. An actor being cast just because he's gay, it's a good thing that gays are being accepted, but it's just not enough of a reason for me to pay money to watch a movie only because of that trending headline. There needs to be more than that for me to watch a movie. There needs to be a good story well-told.


tl;dr version: Just watch this video.

Or really, if you're of a suitable age (like 18 years old or something) and if you're a fan of superheroes and just wants diversity for diversity's sake, just go watch Amazon Prime's The Boys and you'll get a better understanding of how mega corporations like Hollywood studios use said diversity in a very ugly and selfish way that's just not about celebrating diversity at all...
 
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Also, as an additional unrelated unpopular opinion... I liked Return of the King a lot more than Two Towers. BOOM!
 
Here's the thing about criticisms towards "diversity casting": It's not about you, your race, or even remotely about hating a certain group of minority at all. At least it's not in my case (I can't speak for the many self-entitled bigots out there).

Instead, it's about how diversity is now "trending." Your minority status is now profitable to bank on, and so many movie studios cast blacks and Chinese not because, or rather, not just because they want to include those people who deserve the spotlight (because god knows I would want to see more Chinese actors in Hollywood as well, since I'm literally one of them), but also because people pay good money for such diversity... and that kind of filmmaking ticks me off.

I'm someone who grew up on not just American popcorn movies, but also the more "artsy" ones that don't just regurgitate the same familiar family message. I remember some of my earliest films when I discovered the beauty of filmmaking in the 2000s included "American Beauty", "Magnolia", "Citizen Kane", "Casablanca", "Psycho", "Close Encounters of the Third Kind"; basically any renowned works by an auteur over the past century (I'm still trying, and failing, to get used to the older black and white films). And so, it's quite an understatement to say that I have a certain kind of respect for not just filmmaking itself, but innovative, and more importantly, original filmmaking that tries to say something new about life.

These "diversity castings," however, aren't about that... They're about money, plain and simple. My favorite heroines were Ellen Ripley and Sarah Connor, not because they're women, but because they're great characters. But nowadays, people celebrate movies because there's a woman as the main star. I think that's a bigger insult to feminism and equality than contributing towards those values. And see, it goes further back than our progressive era today. The token black character? That was there just to make the studios feel good about casting a black guy as if they're doing something special for the greater collective community (P.S. Hollywood: you're not). That was there just because "Oh, there's gonna be black people watching this too, so let's throw in a black guy." It's an insulting line of thinking not just in filmmaking, but also in our fight for equality. Also, it doesn't just affect black people as well. Imagine you're playing pretend with the schoolyard kids, and the other cool kids tell you to come over because they need an obligatory Asian kid... yeah. Not cool.

Now, to be perfectly clear, I'm not against the business of filmmaking. Making movies can be expensive, and even though many have shot great films for a couple of millions, it's a different industry nowadays and the amount of marketing required (thanks to competition from streaming services) means that it's harder than ever to make back your movie budget and make a profit. I'd also like to think that I've outgrown that phase of my life where I was some pretentious snob who thinks that money doesn't matter in the craft of filmmaking (it really does). So when I do frown upon a film that's made just for the sake of pandering to feminism or a certain minority group, it's not as if I'm raising torches and calling for a riot and it's more of me giving an annoyed groan stating, "You could do better."

Also, for what it's worth, I didn't bother to watch Shang-Chi because it has that same exact problem I'm stating. I'm Chinese, and Shang-Chi looks boring to me. It's the same deal with "Captain Marvel", because yay, we finally have a female-starring Marvel movie... it's just too bad the character's so unlikable. I mean, I enjoyed "Black Widow" a lot more because of the character, not because of gender differences. I liked "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" because of good writing, not because Buffy's biologically different than me. "Captain Marvel" the movie shouldn't be special just because the main character's a different gender - that's never a good reason for telling stories. It's that kind of biasness that got Hollywood executives casting Zorro as a white man instead of a Mexican for so many years because white people were more profitable. This biasness is a slippery slope and a double-edged sword.

So what are we talking about here? Is involving race or gender in a movie inherently bad? Of course not. A movie that tackles issues of race or gender, that's an entirely different thing because the plot itself is about race/gender. These movies were made to tell stories about these issues. In storytelling, character is king, and the story comes next, so if the movie is specifically focusing on a minority group in the plot, then that's a good thing because the intention here isn't to bank on said minority group, but to have an open discussion about them with the audience. "Captain Marvel" kinda tries to talk about feminism, I guess? Buuut in a really cringeworthy and backhanded insult kind of way towards men, so I didn't like it because of that... Feminism should be about equality, not superiority. There were far better shows and movies that tackled feminism in either a more subtle way or a more clever and sincere way.

And the same goes towards sexuality as well, "Moonlight" is a great example of discussing black homosexuality in all its joy and sadness. That's a movie worth celebrating about. An actor being cast just because he's gay, it's a good thing that gays are being accepted, but it's just not enough of a reason for me to pay money to watch a movie only because of that trending headline. There needs to be more than that for me to watch a movie. There needs to be a good story well-told.


tl;dr version: Just watch this video.

Or really, if you're of a suitable age (like 18 years old or something) and if you're a fan of superheroes and just wants diversity for diversity's sake, just go watch Amazon Prime's The Boys and you'll get a better understanding of how mega corporations like Hollywood studios use said diversity in a very ugly and selfish way that's just not about celebrating diversity at all...
I am so happy to see someone has said this! I work in this industry and it's such a touchy subject. I have little say in casting in general, but I'm always asked my opinion on their auditions and who I prefer for the role (I'm usually outnumbered) if it's not an already famous actor. Lately...it's kinda...not done on talent at all, it's about diversity, which sounds great on the surface, but everything you said is true. It's trendy right now and also plenty of producers live in fear for their job if someone on twitter decides there wasn't enough diversity and blows it up.

It's such a shame, cos of course diversity is a beautiful thing. But forcing it is fascism and it's ruining art to not cast based on talent, but rather cast whoever looks best for the image we have to present.

I get it, my father is part of the most hated minority group in the uk (gypsy) and it's still perfectly acceptable for people to call my father's side of the family derogatory names, irl and online. Pikey. Hawker. Thief. Criminal etc etc. That's why I was always told to hide it growing up. I married into a muslim pakistani family, who were generally fair game for "terrorist" remarks and even I got targetted by some hate groups for marrying into it (divorced now anyway). So I understand the need for diversity, but at the same time it's all about being trendy and making money like you said, not because anyone actually cares.

I just feel art shouldn't be restricted in this way. Cast on talent. It feels like it's causing more fear and division when it's literally enforced, as in percentages of "diversity" are forced now. It doesn't even feel right to just cast the one ethnic person at the audition based on their skin colour, because it should be based on their talent. It makes me wonder how they even feel knowing they got the part based on their skin colour anyway, like that's still discrimination in a way - just a more positive end result I guess.
 
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