The Worst And Best Feeling(s)?

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The worst?
I have to say that the worse feeling is being taken advantage of. Now, for different people, this could mean differnt things. For most people, it means that that there are people who are very kind and selfless, but people who are not kind and selfless constantly rely on them, but give little to no in return.

For me, however, it means getting picked on, because those people KNOW that they can get to me. As sad as it is, this applies to family members, even my mom, who I no longer live with due to her and my dad seperating, but I do go out to the town, that I moved out from back in June, to see her, and she will go out of her way to do this via text messages.

Heck, I can remember a time where I felt ganged up on by some of my famlies members by them doing stuff like this. I was in a great mood, which got ruined along with that evening and night.

People tell you to "just ignore them", "it's just a joke" "let it roll off your back", and to "get over it", but the thing is, for some of us, it's not that easy. Some of us are wired differently. This leads to us expressing our emotions differently from most people. This leads to us dealing with aversities different from most people. Sometimes, it even means we take things the "wrong" way, if you will.

This is also leads to my next thing: Being misunderstood.

I am "different" from a lot of people. This can lead people to thinking I am immature, when I am not. Back when I was in Junior High, and High School, sometimes, teachers would get mad at me for the stupidest things, that aren't even worth mentioning. I also had some nice and understanding teachers, but there were also some that made me feel "singled out", for lack of better words. I will always miss being in school, but this is the one thing I DON'T miss (besides waking up at the crack of dawn).

Sometimes I even feel misunderstood by my mom. She claims she understands me 100%, but I don't think she does. I mean, to an extent, she does, but not as much as she claims to. If I go into detail about every little thing, that will make this post too long and boring, so just say that I have certain weaknesses and tendencies that she doesn't seem to understand that are normal for me. Again, she understands a portion of me and the way I am, but not as much as, as aforementioned, much as she claims to.

Don't get me wrong, I love my mom and my other family members, but some of them still need to respect the fact that some people have a harder time with dealing with being picked on, and we should not be taken advantage of.

The best?
One of the best feelings in the world is finding people that share my weaknesses, people I can relate to, or just people that DO understand me.

I hope I am not sounding selfish when saying this, but there is something so special about finding people that have the same weaknesses as me. It reminds me that I am not alone, and that I have people "on my team".

And even just people thinking about me and showing that they care is one of the best feelings in the world to me. As you know by reading this, a little goes a long way with me -- wether it's bad or good.
 
I'd say the worst feeling in the world is heart break. Whether its from a significant other suddenly leaving you, or even to a loved one passing away suddenly (a parent losing a child), it is definitely something that will take a long time for one to recover, but many times not fully. You don't recover, you just think about it less.


The best feeling is the world is opposite from above; love. One hundred percent genuine, mutual, respectful, and unconditional love. Nurturing such as that from your parents makes you feel like a signifiant human being, it allows you to develop your own self love and self respect. Love from a significant other just makes you feel alive. It's great and euphoric.
 
I'd say the worst feeling in the world is heart break. Whether its from a significant other suddenly leaving you, or even to a loved one passing away suddenly (a parent losing a child), it is definitely something that will take a long time for one to recover, but many times not fully. You don't recover, you just think about it less.


The best feeling is the world is opposite from above; love. One hundred percent genuine, mutual, respectful, and unconditional love. Nurturing such as that from your parents makes you feel like a signifiant human being, it allows you to develop your own self love and self respect. Love from a significant other just makes you feel alive. It's great and euphoric.

I will second this on both statements. Heartbreak, for me, is the worst feeling. It's such a destructive force that it can simply tear you apart as a person (on the bright side, it also allows you to rework yourself into an even better version of yourself). As for love, my goodness when it's there, there is nothing like it. It's an all encompassing warmth that makes life so much better.
 
worst for me would be being a burden to others around me and the best would be the feeling of accomplishment or success after hard work
 
Honestly jealousy might be my least favourite feeling. Like not "oh her shoes are cooler than mine" jealousy, jealousy that is mixed with inadequacy when someone you love treats other people better than you and you can't figure out what you did wrong or why they care about you less.

My favourite feeling is definitely belonging. When you're with a group of people and you just know that you fit in there and they all care about you and you are making a positive contribution to the group. That's how I feel at work, and nothing beats that sense of purpose and security for me.
 
I'd say the worst feeling in the world is heart break. Whether its from a significant other suddenly leaving you, or even to a loved one passing away suddenly (a parent losing a child), it is definitely something that will take a long time for one to recover, but many times not fully. You don't recover, you just think about it less.


The best feeling is the world is opposite from above; love. One hundred percent genuine, mutual, respectful, and unconditional love. Nurturing such as that from your parents makes you feel like a signifiant human being, it allows you to develop your own self love and self respect. Love from a significant other just makes you feel alive. It's great and euphoric.

I also agree with this. The worst feeling I have ever experienced in my 40 years of life was the heartbreak of losing my pug. I know a lot of people may not consider animals on the same level as humans, but I do. My pug meant just as much to me as my own child would have and his loss tore me apart. Losing any loved one, especially knowing they're gone forever, is a traumatic experience.

On the other hand, love is the one thing I've found in this world that makes all the pain and suffering worth it. Whether it's the love of a significant other, family, friends, or even your animals, as long as it's true and unconditional, it's a beautiful thing. Without the love of my husband and my current dog, I probably would not have made it through some of the ordeals I've had to overcome.
 
The worst:
I'd say the worst for me, as others have said, is heartbreak. When you are hurt emotionally that you can pretty much feel it physically. Whether it's the feeling of not belonging, a broken friendship/relationship or losing a loved one or even a pet. I think that's by far the worst.

The best:
The best for me is simply pure happiness. That feeling when you just feel the best like nothing can bring you down. Either with other people having a great time, or even playing some games by yourself.
 
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The worst is being misunderstood, or to be made out to be something I'm not.

The best feeling is when you are loved for exactly who you are.

Flaws and all.
 
Worst feeling for me is when you are feeling tired and sluggish and just don't have any motivation to do the things you want and love to do and the best feeling is when you finally got something just the way you wanted and feeling accomplished and achieved what it is you desired. :)
 
The worst feeling for me is probably feeling like being excluded and not part of a friend group, that feeling of rejection from some people just really sucks.

The best feeling for me kind of depends, usually when you know someone really values you, talking to new people and being friendly with them just to start to get to know them better, and whenever I can be a sweet person that really makes me happy.
 
Worst feeling: I don't want my post to become too depressing, so I'll just list throwing up as one of the worst feelings in the world. (Not 'the' worst, but it's somewhere up there.)

I don't often throw up, unless I'm really sick, and I absolutely hate that queasy feeling and everything else that accompanies it--like feeling weak or having cold sweats and the bitter, disgusting after taste is enough to make me want to throw up all over again. I try my best not to throw up whenever I feel the need arise because I hate, hate, hate how it makes me feel.

Best feeling in the world: winning raffles, contests or anything involving a huge prize. To me there's no better feeling than winning a prize, especially if that prize is a lot of money. I've only won the lottery a few instances and that's only because my parents thought I should try my luck at guessing some numbers, too. It was an awesome feeling to get paid more than just allowance money. I wouldn't play the lottery with my own cash, though, the odds are just not worth it.
 
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Worst: I would say the worst feeling is being misinterpreted or people being unable to relate to you at all. I?ve had to deal with this a lot in life and it?s really difficult, because then like, where do you turn to? And unless you?ve been misinterpreted or this has happened to you too, you can?t really understand how it feels.

Best: The best feeling is acceptance. I?m not talking about acceptance as in just people accepting that you?ll be present or do things. No. I?m talking about accepting as in friendships, family, and romantic love. People who accept you for who you truly are are far and few in life, and so when you find people who do, never, ever let go of them. I can tell you in my heart I never want to stop being there for the people that truly accept me and therefore matter in my life. <3
 
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worst feeling for me would be embarrassment/shame and best would be like being in love or something
 
Okay the worst feeling ever is the feeling of dread you get when someone is about to give you bad news, or the feeling right after being told something awful. For example, someone saying gravely ?I need to tell you something? like literally the feeling between hearing that statement and actually hearing the thing is so anxiety ridden and terrifying


The best feeling is laughing and reminiscing with old friends. A close second is getting into bed after a long day
 
Okay the worst feeling ever is the feeling of dread you get when someone is about to give you bad news, or the feeling right after being told something awful. For example, someone saying gravely ?I need to tell you something? like literally the feeling between hearing that statement and actually hearing the thing is so anxiety ridden and terrifying

I 100% can relate.
I end up guessing what the bad news is, but I ask not to be told. I have to get used to it in my head before I can say it out loud.

It can take days.
 
Worst feeling: I don't want my post to become too depressing, so I'll just list throwing up as one of the worst feelings in the world. (Not 'the' worst, but it's somewhere up there.)

I don't often throw up, unless I'm really sick, and I absolutely hate that queasy feeling and everything else that accompanies it--like feeling weak or having cold sweats and the bitter, disgusting after taste is enough to make me want to throw up all over again. I try my best not to throw up whenever I feel the need arise because I hate, hate, hate how it makes me feel.

Best feeling in the world: winning raffles, contests or anything involving a huge prize. To me there's no better feeling than winning a prize, especially if that prize is a lot of money. I've only won the lottery a few instances and that's only because my parents thought I should try my luck at guessing some numbers, too. It was an awesome feeling to get paid more than just allowance money. I wouldn't play the lottery with my own cash, though, the odds are just not worth it.

I can relate to the throwing up part. I got sick when I was really young and I don't remember much other than the fact it was the last time I threw up because that day when I did, I decided I would never do it again. I haven't throw up since I was really little, but about a year ago I got the stomach flu twice and well... I ended up throwing up due to it. I try my best not to do it either and sometimes depending how you feel, it can be soo hard... :/

Also, I love the feeling of winning a raffle or contests too. Getting a prize is the best feeling ever. :)
 
The worst feeling is, when there's something brutal on going, that takes away some ones' natural life, right, or happiness by very wrong violence and force, and you feel like you're torn. You want to change it, and are willing to do anything to make it. Yet. there doesn't seem to look something that could change. At least not anytime soon. And even while you're struggling to figure out the way to add a change to it, even a small change, a lot of lives are taken away. You feel crying, screaming, begging, and anger. You feel so worthless for not being able to save them and everything starts to fuse into furious anger and heartbreak. It's the worst feeling I ever know.

The nicest feeling is, when you knew there has been a someone who's been dedicating to change it as same as you wish, and they're great person who's way more than deserving your respect. It relieves your pain, gives you some more energy to stand up and try again. It's one of two best feelings I ever know.
 
For me, the worst feeling in the world is when I'm told that someone has died, especially if it was someone who was really close to me. I deal with really bad anxiety so when I hear about people dying it just worries me so horribly. I've experienced losing a loved one first-hand, and I worry about losing my mom and my brother so much I actually have dreams about it. Even the recent news of the passing of Kobe Bryant has me worked up. Unfortunately I've no real way to conquer this fear so I just live with it.


And the best feelings are usually when I'm living in the moment, really embracing the things I love. For example, I would be most happy if I was sitting in a kayak on a still lake in the wee hours of the Summer morning, when all the birds are waking up and singing. I would be most happy driving down a backroad in an old VW with all the windows down, bonus points if I have my (soon to be) dog with me, in the passenger seat. I would be most happy if I was hanging out in a swimming pool with all my friends, blasting 80s jams on a boombox. Just imagining these things makes me feel really happy <33333
 
In my experience, the best feeling is knowing you are loved, while the worst would be having unfinished business/loose ends with another person (especially if the person ends up passing away and you don't resolve whatever issues with them beforehand).

Heartbreak closely follows, along with grief.
 
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