vent thread

[cloverette]

just really upset over recent events and wanted to vent here, feel free to add your own if you want. just blow off steam i guess

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i just feel so sick to my stomach, my ex is going around spreading rumors about me and keeps trying to gaslight me and take the moral high ground and hes just such a disgusting human being

he told his b**** friend intimate details about when we dated and she went and told everyone at our school and he wont even accept responsibility for what hes done. yesterday he had the audacity to come up to me tell me i was "paranoid" and that nobody was spreading rumors about me despite so many people i know already having been told about what happened through the grape vine. he then goes on to say that i "shouldnt let these things get to me" like its my fault. when i originally confronted him about it over text he basically said that since he wasnt the one actively spreading information that it wasnt his fault, i got mad and he blocked me. then the next day he comes up to me and interrupts my lunch to talk about it, because it never matters when i want to talk, its always what he wants and thats the way its always been. im not even mad about the rumors, its whatever, im pissed that he wont take responsibility and that hes weaseling his way back into my life like the pathetic worm he is. hes actively trying to hurt me and then turns around acting like im the one responsible. im sickened by it

 

[Watchingthetreetops]

You can't change people. If he's trying to get you angry, don't let him. The best you can do is shrug it off, because you're better than that. Don't stoop to his level. Remember: smile at your enemies and it will burn like hot coals on their head. You don't have to even deal with this situation. Walk away with your dignity holding your head high.

I'm worried about alt-right because of the parallels to the nazis that very obviously exist. It's terrifying.

 

[A spooky ghost!]

Aw I'm so sorry to hear that but like watchingthetreetops said the best thing to do is not let him get you angry.Your worth ten of him.Do you have anyone in your life that you can talk to about this like friends or family? Speaking from experience you have to put yourself first because no one that truly appreciates you would do that.Take care of you hun x

 

[cloverette]

Aw I'm so sorry to hear that but like watchingthetreetops said the best thing to do is not let him get you angry.Your worth ten of him.Do you have anyone in your life that you can talk to about this like friends or family? Speaking from experience you have to put yourself first because no one that truly appreciates you would do that.Take care of you hun x

ah ty. my go to friend for this kind of stuff is out of town without internet lol, ive got my friend grace whos a sweetheart.

 

[A spooky ghost!]

Aw that's great were always here as well☺

 

[Oblivia]

Hey there! Please use the existing thread for venting/talking about what's bothering you.

Thank you.