Paxx
~ ♥ Lazy ♥ ~
My parents still think the internet is a horrible place. They think I'll give out my location and a predator will come to my door, but I'm old enough to take care of myself and to know not to share said personal information. My parents still treat me like I'm 12, even though I'm old enough to be an adult and make my own decisions. They need to know that not every single human-being on the internet is a predator seeking out children.
What do your parents think about the internet? Do they know you use it everyday to communicate to others, or are you still doing it behind their backs like I am? I've been using the internet to speak to online friends since I was 13. My mom especially has caught me a couple of times throughout, but only recently did I begin to get pissed about the fact that they will never understand and realize that I'm not dumb as they think.
EDIT:
I found this article by Randye Hoder and thought I share a portion of it with you guys.
"The Internet isn’t full of sexual predators waiting to prey on our children.
Boyd is careful here, clearly not wanting to dismiss parents’ apprehensions about their kids’ security and wellbeing. “They are afraid because terrible things do happen to children,” she acknowledges.
But she argues that parents should keep things in perspective. “Internet-initiated sexual assaults are rare,” she writes, adding that the overall number of sex crimes against minors has actually been falling for more than two decades—a strong indication that “the Internet is not creating a new plague.”
In fact, as Boyd points out, studies show that teenagers are far more likely to be attacked by a family member or someone else they know from school or their place of worship than by a sketchy adult they meet online.
“A central challenge in addressing the sexual victimization of children is that the public is not comfortable facing the harrowing reality that strangers are unlikely perpetrators,” Boyd writes."
What do your parents think about the internet? Do they know you use it everyday to communicate to others, or are you still doing it behind their backs like I am? I've been using the internet to speak to online friends since I was 13. My mom especially has caught me a couple of times throughout, but only recently did I begin to get pissed about the fact that they will never understand and realize that I'm not dumb as they think.
EDIT:
I found this article by Randye Hoder and thought I share a portion of it with you guys.
"The Internet isn’t full of sexual predators waiting to prey on our children.
Boyd is careful here, clearly not wanting to dismiss parents’ apprehensions about their kids’ security and wellbeing. “They are afraid because terrible things do happen to children,” she acknowledges.
But she argues that parents should keep things in perspective. “Internet-initiated sexual assaults are rare,” she writes, adding that the overall number of sex crimes against minors has actually been falling for more than two decades—a strong indication that “the Internet is not creating a new plague.”
In fact, as Boyd points out, studies show that teenagers are far more likely to be attacked by a family member or someone else they know from school or their place of worship than by a sketchy adult they meet online.
“A central challenge in addressing the sexual victimization of children is that the public is not comfortable facing the harrowing reality that strangers are unlikely perpetrators,” Boyd writes."
Last edited: