What helps you calm down / relax?

[Mairmalade]

When you're angry, upset, sad, lost, confused, anxious...how do you calm yourself down or how do you 'recharge?'

Whenever I'm feeling down I'll take a few days for myself to watch a favorite show, listen to a few soundtracks, or cozy up in a blanket to play a game like Rune Factory, Animal Crossing or Dragon Quest (simulation / RPGs).

What/where is your chill space?

 

[sierra]

Healthy ways I deal with anger is by talking about it or journaling.
Unhealthy roads usually way more traveled are squashing that right on down with distractions and food.

 

[Cheryll]

Stare at a mirror and question all life choices.

Or lay on a couch and endlessly think about anything.

 

[Flyffel]

sleep

 

[Mayor Monday]

My chill space is at home.

I draw, play games, or just hang out with family and talk (especially if I'm in a really down mood). Sometimes I go for a walk in our woods nearby.

It's the little things.

 

[Dim]

Idk, walk away from everyone and try and calm down before I do something I'll regret. Also listen to music, watch tv, anything to get my mind off of things

 

[michealsmells]

Theres a lotta ways that I calm down, though it depends on what upset me in the first place.

Sometimes I draw, but sometimes that upsets me. Sometimes I play a game, but sometimes it bores me. I have to flip-flop between a lotta things to keep my ADHD from getting annoyed with me, haha. Sometimes that coping mechanism is unhealthy, like eating, or slightly less or more unhealthy depending on how you view it, drinking coffee.

I will say that the two methods that work the most (though still have a margin of failure) are taking a nap or listening to music. Both are relatively in the moment, but they can help me take my mind off of things and temporarily transport me away somewhere nicer.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I'm literally always stress/anxious so I have to have some kind of coping mechanism. The ways that I calm myself down are by watching funny/interesting videos on youtube, playing with my cats (and soon my puppy), playing video games, drawing, playing piano, and talking to my close friends. Of those, the most effective is always playing with my pets, because they're always so sweet and very emotionally supportive of me

 

[Midoriya]

When I’m upset or anything it’s usually through the roof, so the only thing that can really calm me down are my friends or other people.

 

[Corrie]

Crying. Honestly it's an instant fix after my crying fit.

Otherwise it's deep breaths, watching something funny to take my mind off it, taking a bath or shower, eating candy, having tea and ASMR videos.

 

[Xara]

if it’s something brought on by a certain situation, if i’m being honest, nothing really works to calm me down until the problem is resolved or talked through.

however, if i’m just having one of those days, i’ll typically step away from social media and focus on stuff that makes me happy - reading, writing, listening to music, etc. it also helps if i isolate myself - i know that’s sort of frowned upon and not considered all that healthy, but i find myself to be awful company when i’m upset and i don’t want to upset anyone or pick a fight just beause i’m having a bad time.

if that fails, sleep is always an option, too lol

 

[LadyDestani]

It depends on what has upset me and where I am at the time because that limits my options sometimes. If I'm at work, I try to find a moment to just walk away. I take a walk outside or find a quiet corner to read or check in on the forums. But my true safe space for recharging is at home. I need to be alone in my own head space for a while to think things through or calm down. I like to take long, hot showers, read, play Animal Crossing, watch TV, or just chill with my dog to feel better.

 

[allainah]

some green

 

[Stella-Io]

A task that requires alot of my attention, like playing NL to landscape my towns, playing videogames tryin to accomplish a goal or milestone or drawing which takes alot of my focus and theres no way I can do that half distracted. If I need my full attention on somethin, then I can't I about the thing that made me mad.

Or mindless tasks like listening to music or scrolling throu tumblr/twitter. Those dont always help thou cause once I'm not doin it, I can get mad again.

 

[R. Planet]

some green

Ok good. It's not wrong to say weed.

Because weed.

 

[Miharu]

I love watching anime or reading manga or webtoons to calm down. Also napping helps a lot as well for me! Napping to the sound of lofi music is so relaxing.

 

[d3_3p]

Popping a CD in a player and listening an album loud. I have a collection of music, which really helps to relax.

 

[Oldcatlady]

Candy crush! I may be a bit obsessed... it’s so relaxing tho

 

[SmoochsPLH]

Distractions distractions distractions! I have bad anxiety so just distracting myself helps a lot.

Playing video games (phone, console, etc.), watching videos, getting out of the house, watching my mom play whatever game she's into atm, art, going through my stuffed animals and cleaning them/seeing who needs stitches or just naming each one, playing the anti stress games on my phone, listening to music, etc.

 

[visibleghost]

i sleep, rest, do something i enjoy like playing video games, hang out with my cat, go for a run, take a walk, shower or listen to music. i have some bad coping mechanisms too but we don't need to discuss those lol.