What's Bothering You?

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RedTropicalPeachyFish said:
You mean stuff like this? - x
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yeah, i mean some other ways we can't discuss here though lol. like on blogs and such but i guess he's hidden because his artist name lol..also **** that 80s jpop site it basically gives u nsfw popups and ransomware ****
 
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I've ran out of my night med and I'm running on no sleep. Thought work would be easy today but. nope. As soon as I start my shift my boss asks me to clean the bathroom floor. twice. Third time this month the public bathroom's been flooded. I'm getting sick of the cycle. They open up a brand new store somewhere else but they can't fix the stupid plumbing here?
 
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Nox said:
As soon as I start my shift my boss asks me to clean the bathroom floor. twice.
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Rip I've been there before, god forbid there be a spec of dust on the floor...

Hope your day gets better!~
 
Kristen said:
i honestly feel horrible and stressed.

i have too many classes, too much school work to do. i missed the deadline for 4 assignments in 2 classes (2 assignments per class) and i have zeroes even though i just....... idk. i have a bad habit of procrastinating, but lately ive just generally been struggling. im late to everything. theres some kind of issue (technical issues, personal issues, etc.) and im honestly getting tired of it. i want to do things, especially for other people, but its starting to hurt me, and its even worse when i let them down. even on tbt when im fulfilling orders, i tend to be late. i feel so proud when im on time which is sad. im on a competitive splatoon team and im always late to practices and scrims or drop out early because i feel so horrible/upset. ive been getting annoyed by everything my family does and i want to be away from everyone. i want some time of complete alone and silence and no responsibility but im never going to get it. idk what to do anymore.

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i also want to participate in the bell tree forums events but i have no energy and its frustrating
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Hey, just read your post and I can say for sure that I can relate. I?m struggling with a lot lately, including my schoolwork, being social, getting things done, and just my overall mental health and confidence. Even doing things for other people is hurting me (though I do enjoy taking the time to respond to you and others and at least try to help). I feel like I don?t have enough time to myself or to relax either, which is just making everything worse (I kid you not, I had barely anything to do on Thursday and Friday and still didn?t get a lot done in the last four days).

I wouldn?t worry about the event because there should definitely at least be another event during Christmas time (December), if not before then.

As for everything else, I would do what Stella-Io recommended and letting people know that you need time to yourself. Keeping a calendar with you and scheduling things, whether it?s a physical calendar or a digital one on your phone, could also potentially help you prepare for things more. If you can, try to get things done for school in advance so that you don?t have to worry about them. I know that?s easy to say and hard to do though, as I?m a procrastinator as well and don?t really do well with that myself.

I would say to just try to be positive about things, even through the bad times. That?s what I?m doing now and it?s one of the only things keeping me going at the moment. I hope you feel better soon <3
 
I'm so tired of writing essays. When all of this is done I'm going to enjoy every second that I'm not writing an essay or doing some other schoolwork.
 
I'm pretty sure that if finishing an essay is going to make me cry, then I need to stop writing essays lol
 
Reginald Fairfield said:
I just accepted I have no energy for the event, had some pizza and a hard soda and a nap.

Maybe you're over-scheduling? I made sure I have no obligations today.
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yeah i should probably keep things clearer, i wish i could've done the event though..

Stella-Io said:
I can't really talk about the school work, the closest thing I have to that is my job. I procrastinate on alot of stuff too, mostly cause I have no energy after work. Not only are my hours unpredictable but they're random and sometimes I'm doing life stuff on my days off or before/after work. I basically try to shove stuff in the time I have before/after somethin. It makes me feel like I've done somethin before I loose all energy and motivation later.

I would say to let others around you know that you're tired and just want some time to sleep or finish an assignment, or you can just say that and flop out on your bed staring at the ceiling doing nothing if you find that destressing. Doing things for other people involves energy, and you have to take care of yourself first before you put others above you. If they are friends they'll understand that you need time to unwind esp of they are in the same boat as you (school, busy ect...)

Also Winter Break is coming up soon, so I'm assuming school has off for that. During then you can do what makes you feel happy since school work should be at a minimum. Irratibility is a symptom of low energy, and other people take that the wrong way when they don't understand that you need alone time. If need be, dedicate a day that you do stuff for you. Even if you can't do an entire day, make a few hours on a day where you don't have alot of action goin on. I hope you get a break soon and others will understand what you need.
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my finals are the week of the 9th so after that ill get to rest. idk what next semester looks like yet but im hoping ill get to pick classes that arent as demanding. my professor gave me an extension today so that was nice. and my other prof helped me calm down from all my stress which was nice too.

and thank you, im going to aim to have all my homework done before this weekend so i can relax

i appreciate you both replying <3

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Shinichi said:
Hey, just read your post and I can say for sure that I can relate. I’m struggling with a lot lately, including my schoolwork, being social, getting things done, and just my overall mental health and confidence. Even doing things for other people is hurting me (though I do enjoy taking the time to respond to you and others and at least try to help). I feel like I don’t have enough time to myself or to relax either, which is just making everything worse (I kid you not, I had barely anything to do on Thursday and Friday and still didn’t get a lot done in the last four days).

I wouldn’t worry about the event because there should definitely at least be another event during Christmas time (December), if not before then.

As for everything else, I would do what Stella-Io recommended and letting people know that you need time to yourself. Keeping a calendar with you and scheduling things, whether it’s a physical calendar or a digital one on your phone, could also potentially help you prepare for things more. If you can, try to get things done for school in advance so that you don’t have to worry about them. I know that’s easy to say and hard to do though, as I’m a procrastinator as well and don’t really do well with that myself.

I would say to just try to be positive about things, even through the bad times. That’s what I’m doing now and it’s one of the only things keeping me going at the moment. I hope you feel better soon <3
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i just saw your reply too, sorry!! im so sorry that you can relate :( and i do prefer christmas over halloween, so i guess theres an up side!
thanks so much btw <3 i wish you couldnt relate though :'(

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im sorry i dont have too much to say im exhausted but i love yall
 
I?ve been having pains and aches in my arms and legs. Also been having jaw/front neck pain. Then I have chest pressure/pain that occurs when I?m really stressed or anxious. I?m kinda concerned about all this since its been going on for a while now.
 
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