One of my friends keeps telling me she's too busy to hang out, but she still posts stuff online about double dates with her new partner and other friends. Every time I ask whether she's avoiding me she just changes the subject. She used to frequently ask me to hang out several weeks ago, but ever since she broke up with her last partner she's stopped. I would think she wants nothing to do with me anymore, except every time I forget to reply to her texts within a few hours she spams memes. At one point after the breakup she even tried to call me at four in the morning without any warning. I explained I was too tired to answer and she replied "pog, go off," before saying "I'm not mad at you, go to bed." The other day I told her about someone I have feelings for and she started posting memes on social media about being crushed.
She treats me like an ex despite the fact we were only friends. I feel like chopped liver because she'll hang out with other people, but make excuses on why she's won't spend time with me. This along with her other behavior has made me anxious for several weeks. Every time I confront her about it she either changes the subject or says "I'm not mad."
Does anyone know what is happening? It's very tiring having to deal with this and I'm tired of being treated like dirt.