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had an automatic payment come out that I don't even know how to cancel so that's fun. also I'm tired of spending money, I wish I could just take my money and stash like 90% of it and leave the other 10% for little things I need. so tired of being broke constantly.
 
had an automatic payment come out that I don't even know how to cancel so that's fun. also I'm tired of spending money, I wish I could just take my money and stash like 90% of it and leave the other 10% for little things I need. so tired of being broke constantly.
Do you know which company it is from? They should have some sort of contact form or such where you should be able to cancel. Or contact your bank, they should be able to tell where it is from.
 
Do you know which company it is from? They should have some sort of contact form or such where you should be able to cancel. Or contact your bank, they should be able to tell where it is from.
I contacted them, haven't gotten a reply yet. ideally they could refund me and completely cancel the order but idk.
 
I contacted them, haven't gotten a reply yet. ideally they could refund me and completely cancel the order but idk.
Most banks can’t cancel automatic payments, especially if the automatic payment wasn’t set up on the bank side and was set up on the merchant side. This is because you’ve given previous authorization for the charge to come through. In many cases, they’ll tell you who it is and tell you to call them, but they won’t cancel it on their end. The other thing to find out is if it’s a debit card automatic payment or and ACH payment. The only way banks can stop automatic payments on their end (that are set up on the merchant’s end) is to cancel your debit card and get a new one. I used to work at a bank, if you can’t tell, heh.
 
Ordered from a Chinese company at the beginning of November. Waited for item to be shipped for, like, three weeks. It didn’t happen. I contacted them three separate times with no response. After a week of no response, I had my credit card take the charge off. They did, and after doing so, the company contacted me giving me a tracking number and asking me to remove the chargeback. I finally received the item yesterday after all that hassle. Something tells me if I hadn’t requested the refund from the credit card company, I’d still be waiting for the item today.

Companies like that bother me.
 
Most banks can’t cancel automatic payments, especially if the automatic payment wasn’t set up on the bank side and was set up on the merchant side. This is because you’ve given previous authorization for the charge to come through. In many cases, they’ll tell you who it is and tell you to call them, but they won’t cancel it on their end. The other thing to find out is if it’s a debit card automatic payment or and ACH payment. The only way banks can stop automatic payments on their end (that are set up on the merchant’s end) is to cancel your debit card and get a new one. I used to work at a bank, if you can’t tell, heh.
well it wasn't the bank I contacted,, it was the people who took the money out. I honestly wouldn't care except I don't make much money to begin with so every dollar is important to me.


on a much less light-hearted note I'm struggling really bad rn and I can't get ahold of my therapist's office so idk what to do 🙃


edit: I think I'm okay now, got some stuff sorted out. I hope I'm able to talk to my doctor soon though or nothing is really gonna get better w me.
 
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well it wasn't the bank I contacted,, it was the people who took the money out. I honestly wouldn't care except I don't make much money to begin with so every dollar is important to me.


on a much less light-hearted note I'm struggling really bad rn and I can't get ahold of my therapist's office so idk what to do 🙃
Ahh okay, yeah, I feel ya. I know how it is to be in that position where every dollar, hell every cent counts. I’m always here if you need someone 💕
 
my photography teacher is making my class do a project where i need to make a google slide and then put the photos i took earlier this year on it along with a description of it. the problem is that i don’t have most of the photos she’s asking for because i asked her if i could delete half of them on google drive a few months ago and she said yes. they’re probably buried deep in my files somewhere but this whole thing is a nightmare.

also i swear the teacher’s main goal this week was the make everything as stressful as possible. like bro chill i do not need your 20 page study packet just tell me what i need to study.
 
I have PTSD. I lash out in ways I don‘t want to. But aside from the lashing the feeling. The feeling is agonising. I feel trapped by my own mind and the physical reaction is genuine agony

this because i tried to learn art again… the process of learning is miserable at home and with no guidance… any Artists interested in improving and want to talk please message me very desparate for art comlany
 
Sick of my Lemmy not being able to keep up or compete with these Waluigi/Wigglers. But at least I’m using a combination I like.
 
I got stuck in the bathroom with an absolutely gigantic garden spider 😭 I actually heard it skittering around before I even saw the horrible thing aslkjfsflgds

wound up leaning horizontally across my bathroom sink so I could wash my hands without getting near that accursed monstrosity

I wish spiders could understand human speech so I could tell them that a) I do not want to eat them and b) to stay away from me and not make any sudden movements and neither of us will have a problem. but they cannot understand me and so I must live in the fear that one wrong move will prompt them to suddenly charge me at full sprint

and now I'm jumpy and everything looks and feels like spiders
 
There's a mosquito in my room.
I SAW IT AND NOW I CAN'T FIND IT
I'm itchy cause it got a couple of bites on me

It better pay rent if it wants to stay here
 
Woke-up with severe neck pain and a bad headache. I had hoped it would ease off after a couple of hours but it is refusing to shift. 😔
 
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