What's Bothering You?
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My dog is in season and I can’t help but feel sorry for her 
Getting her spayed is near impossible at the moment, it’s just too expensive. I know that she doesn’t feel well, she’s been acting super clingy all day, tails been down with her ears back and not to be too TMI, she’s been quite heavy. Tried to keep her on towels wherever possible, but quite a lot of the time she’s been mute and inactive. Don’t get me wrong, it’s been lovely without her barking whenever she hears a noise, but I do miss her normal playful personality. It’s awful seeing her suffer like this.
Getting her spayed is near impossible at the moment, it’s just too expensive. I know that she doesn’t feel well, she’s been acting super clingy all day, tails been down with her ears back and not to be too TMI, she’s been quite heavy. Tried to keep her on towels wherever possible, but quite a lot of the time she’s been mute and inactive. Don’t get me wrong, it’s been lovely without her barking whenever she hears a noise, but I do miss her normal playful personality. It’s awful seeing her suffer like this.Thank you. They wanted to lengthen my deal a month at least but no, top boss ****ers can't say yes at all. And yeah I can't go to like, one of the adult help places because it requires stuff you shouldn't dabble in unless it's a real emergency. I think there might be one other adult thing I can go to when I'm 30 cause this youth thing is only til 29 so i hope I can get help. Like sure I could apply for unemployment money but I would probably need help due to Asperger anyway and they don't give a ****
TW: violence, mental health
After reading what happened in Utah to that 13-year old boy with Asperger's and his family being asked by the media what happened and their reaction to it. . .defund the police. Pls. I teared up because that shouldn't be happening, same with violence against BIPOC. If supporting the grassroots of BLM makes me "anti-US" well alright. The police and justice systems protect some of these corrupt individuals and not the citizens. I am so numb. I wish there was truly justice.
After reading what happened in Utah to that 13-year old boy with Asperger's and his family being asked by the media what happened and their reaction to it. . .defund the police. Pls. I teared up because that shouldn't be happening, same with violence against BIPOC. If supporting the grassroots of BLM makes me "anti-US" well alright. The police and justice systems protect some of these corrupt individuals and not the citizens. I am so numb. I wish there was truly justice.
Toska
♡ let me paint you a picture ♡
Those are the worst. Usually some rest helps me, but I hope you feel better soon <3
Just learned the friend I did everything for to try to protect from another person is doing the same thing the other person is doing. Plus, she expects me to be on her side. Could get into details but I'm just kinda done at this point. Trusting people is becoming harder and harder.
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
Ugh, just being looked at by my mother gives me the shivers. Yeesh. I am NOT a mini version of you, and jfc you are one of the most saddest, most depressing individual I've ever had to meet.
Reginald Fairfield
Senior Member
Weren't you in a dorm away from her?
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
I was, but I moved back due to some reasons. I plan to move back in by Spring or whenever 2nd semester starts though.
Seriously she sucks ass
xSuperMario64x
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too much homework/studying and not nearly enough motivation
Someone kick my butt cause I should really email these people...
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More like, make the police education proper and don't make them wear large ass machine guns. Then a lot of people applying also have skewed views, so yeah make them do a psychological test, too.
That's the thing though, the education they receive is an issue and then when they receive funding yep they get those large guns and other gear that really adds up to bam let's use hostile force WHAM boo hissssss. Definitely yes to an evaluation too. Routine ones. I know they typically undergo trauma after being in service for awhile, but it's just. . .I cannot sympathize when there are some taking joy in harming others. It sickens me as a BIPOC woman.
Katzenjammer
♫Cat that Jams♫
I cannot sympathize with anyone taking joy in harming others. It makes me sick as a human being.
My lower back on the left side is so painful right now, my back/neck is all screwed up and my fibromyalgia is really acting up (like it does every day..ugh), and it's why I'm usually awake at weird hours in general.
Yeah, I mean it is ****ed up and it needs refund in the way that money should be put on proper police training and education and they should learn to handle all sorts of people without any racism/phobia. I don't know all the amendment(s) related to guns and such, but I hardly believe someone with Asperger(I have it myself so when people misjudge/doesn't understand us it irks me cause there are so much material available) would make such a thing that they would need to shoot them. I don't support violence from any side, and I had to google that term but I can see where you're coming from.
Also if you have any issues and/or you experience trauma/PTSD from your work you shouldn't be on it, anyway.
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This, we're all human beings. I agree police people are a lot of times racist/any kind of phobic or doesn't know how to handle severe autism persons but yeah, again education is ****ed in the US and probably a lot of countries.
Yep I agree with a majority of your stance on it, and yes I do have a heavy bias because of my ethnic background and I have mental health stuff I deal with so. . .yeah. :/ I do think that it's also a two-fold thing of if it's determined that they experience the trauma, maybe it isn't best that they're in that role/position. But at the same time, it's more common than is let on (because people don't get formally diagnosed), people hide it or it doesn't get triggered until much later, etc. I don't wish trauma or PTSD or any sort of condition on anyone, don't get me wrong. Doesn't excuse their actions though to channel their suffering, so to speak, onto others.
I should be asleep RIP my eyes are going to be b l o o d s h o t.
Yeah, don't feel pressured to agree, I'm just posting my side of the coin without trying to lean overboard cause I know people are definitely affected personally. What has happened with police shootings, BLM/ASD people stuff and such are absolutely non-excusable. And sure it can come up later on in your work, but if you feel you can't handle it, it's not a job for everyone and the the whole education system and trying people for police employment needs to be completely reworked. And you should continuously be checked up on, tbf.
Big mood, I wish you a good night and day though
xSuperMario64x
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yeah I don't agree with outright defunding the police, rather the system that's in place to educate and hire officers needs to be heavily evaluated. there are many good cops out there, who actually protect the people and think in the people's best interest. it's sad that their reputation is being tarnished by the ones who dont deserve to be a cop.
