What's Bothering You?

[Toska]

Just learned a guy that I think I like acts differently around other people... some of the things he says and does, they're just different. And not necessarily in a good way. Wonder why..?

 

[spawnpoint]

Just learned a guy that I think I like acts differently around other people... some of the things he says and does, they're just different. And not necessarily in a good way. Wonder why..?

Look my best friend does the same thing, it's just natural for boys to act differently around some people than others, I've learned to just accept that fact

 

[Toska]

Look my best friend does the same thing, it's just natural for boys to act differently around some people than others, I've learned to just accept that fact

Yeah. Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone in this did you talk to him about it?

 

[spawnpoint]

Yeah. Thanks for letting me know I'm not alone in this did you talk to him about it?

I mean, I didn't didn't exactly directly confront him about it or anything, he just asked me if I thought any less of him for finding out Hes like that and nah I don't
He acts different on tbt and the tbt discord I joined then he does when directly talking to me, I don't think there's really anything I can do about it because that's just how he is

 

[Toska]

I mean, I didn't didn't exactly directly confront him about it or anything, he just asked me if I thought any less of him for finding out Hes like that and nah I don't
He acts different on tbt and the tbt discord I joined then he does when directly talking to me, I don't think there's really anything I can do about it because that's just how he is

Oh, okay. It's good he was asking you what you thought, I suppose. And yeah, just something to get used to. My friend doesn't own TBT, it's just when I see him in person and when I see him amongst his friends. Again, thanks for letting me know I'm not the only one with this issue

 

[Hikari]

Just learned a guy that I think I like acts differently around other people... some of the things he says and does, they're just different. And not necessarily in a good way. Wonder why..?

i feel like most people tend to act differently depending upon who they're around. for instance, you may behave differently around your family versus your friends, or classmates, etc. i don't think it's anything to really worry about, unless its something that is offensive to you

 

[Toska]

i feel like most people tend to act differently depending upon who they're around. for instance, you may behave differently around your family versus your friends, or classmates, etc. i don't think it's anything to really worry about, unless its something that is offensive to you

No, nothing offensive at the moment. I guess he's just more intense? I don't really know how to explain it, but in general he's been acting weird lately. And yeah, that makes a lot of since. I'm sure most others do the same thing, just kinda odd noticing it firsthand. Thanks!

 

[frogslime]

overwhelmed with a weird sense of fear for no reason but I can't shake it and it's bothersome

 

[Seastar]

I'm having anxiety over things that have absolutely nothing to do with me. It's making it hard to sleep. Why am I like this...

 

[Pondo]

I have conflicting feelings about telling people I’m in a new relationship.
I both want to scream it at the heavens/post is everywhere online that he is mine, or keep it to myself... I think I’ll just follow the latter until he’s comfortable spilling the beans.

 

[michealsmells]

I keep thinking I've bitten off more than I can chew when in reality... I'm kinda doing fine?

I've been doing art like crazy for both a bunch of different people as well as myself. I've been working on school quite well (slacking a little in the math department but hey, what's new). I feel I've been keeping myself and my workspace cleaner than usual, I've been motivated, more independent, I even opened commissions off-site.

But... I can't help but feel... off. Whenever I want to take a break I'm feeling awful about it. Everyone tells me I'm fine. That art-turnover being only a week is really fast and extending deadlines isn't a big deal. That sometimes you do classwork and it just doesn't stick. That sometimes all you wanna do is lay down and do nothing, not in a depressed way, but in a just "i wanna be lazy for a bit" way.

I know I shouldn't be stressed about taking a break but I am, I really am, and I dunno how to stop that stress.

 

[Alienfish]

The damn summer workers at the mail company not knowing how to reply properly. Guess I can try and call them and ask for a better rep but honestly I sent them proof and they basically hire baby workers for it sigh.

Post automatically merged: Sep 10, 2020

Just read an article stating the effects of narcissistic abuse, and I can relate to all three of the effects listed. I'm sort of frightened now.

well, i don't think you need to relate just to to confirm it, it's already confirmed for good or bad but yeah i rly hope u can get the help you need <3

 

[Seastar]

I woke up to my pro controller drifting and I want to scream.

 

[skarmoury]

idk why im sleepy this week but it might be because this week was the start of classes. i srsly dont want to Think anymore i just want to Sleep

i just wanna read my stupid manga and go to bed, i hate these online classes but it's not like i can do anything about it lol. i just hope i adjust to it soon bc rn my body is fighting against listening or not falling asleep

 

[Alienfish]

Turns out it's actually USPS ****ing things up, also don't say stuff left my country/customs etc. if it hasn't. I just hope this company replies and I'm glad they insured **** cause I ain't hell losin this man

 

[milktae]

I’ve been getting really bad grades in one of my higher classes and I wish I wasn’t in it anymore

 

[Katzenjammer]

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[Hikari]

I feel like if I say anything, it'll be taken wrong or people will think I'm looking for pity or just whining or complaining and I don't anyone to think that at all! I also hate to sound like I'm complaining when I'm so very blessed. I feel I don't have the right to complain about anything as there are people out there that have it so much worse...

sounds like you're dealing with emotional invalidation :c just because your issues aren't as bad as others, doesn't make them any less valid! it took me a long time to accept that, but in the long run, it'll only hurt you if you don't let others know how you truly feel about what's bothering you. hope that helps c:

 

[_Rainy_]

I miss some of the friends I’ve made on here who’ve disappeared sometimes. I’m shy and don’t make friends easily and these people got passed my defenses. I get overly attached I guess. I still talk to one of them occasionally, but we have zero to talk about anymore. This place has lost some of its color for me now that I don’t see them

 

[Alienfish]

sounds like you're dealing with emotional invalidation :c just because your issues aren't as bad as others, doesn't make them any less valid! it took me a long time to accept that, but in the long run, it'll only hurt you if you don't let others know how you truly feel about what's bothering you. hope that helps c:

^^^^this.

also hope they can help me i'd hate to lost this package aaa